We will never understand the actions of others until we stand in their shoes.
That being said, this protective mother lioness has definetly let out a few roars in her lifetime against those that have shown injustice to her cubs.
I didnt roar often but the kids learnt that certain behaviours are just not acceptable, no matter what the justification was. So I totally understand the turmoil and frustration you were feeling.
I hope your daughter understands what a tool that father was for treating her like that. Thanks again for sharing - you certainly write from the heart.