First statement!
Instead of letting people go to cry from their predecessors, this film will give more value to each other once the incumbent finishes reading so that those without male or female friends can learn something from them.
01
Meng Yun and Lin Jia have been together for five years because of a trivial quarrel, under the impulse to break up.
Lin Jia decided to move out from Meng Yun's home.
He did not want her to go at all, and paid close attention to her moves, lying on the couch, indignant.
She packed her luggage, deliberately made the sound, deliberately come back and forth in his field of vision.
Finally she pulled the suitcase and said, what else do you want to say?
He put half-deadly attitude that you have decided, I can say anything.
Then the door gently closed. Flop.
He thought she would not go, she thought he would stay.
She really left the result, he really did not retain.
Many lovers should be such a hand it.
Had not much of a thing, a good mood to open a few joke will be able to pass.
However, by accident, the standoff will begin.
The boys think a woman should dry a while, and girls think he is tired of not love yourself.
In fact, at that time if one party retreat a small step, the relationship will be able to resume as usual.
People in the feelings are always too clumsy and wayward, it is easy to export wounding, do not know how to clean up the situation.
It is like two separate people far apart, stubbornly stand still in silence, they will never meet again.
02
Lin Jia deliberately left something in the Meng Yun home, confessed to him: do not send to the company, so I have a new address to you. All fools know what that means.
Later, she told him from the WeChat where to send things.
He returned: oh.
If he can say something, the outcome may be different. but. . .
Lin Jia is ill, her medicine is in Meng Yun there. If she can make a phone call and let Meng Yun help her, the result may be different. But no. . .
In fact, two beloved of each other, said the break up does not mean the hands were divided, one from the family may not be broke up, the real separation is that two people are not willing to face a positive solution, and then lingering in silence , Gradually give up, finally can not go back.
How many feelings are dead in silence.
03
The reason why the "predecessor 3" poke a tear is that one of the reasons is that both the male and the female masters are too much like the average person: I am angry I do not know what to say, noisy frame I do not know how to ease, Well, it is said that we break up and then have to add a sentence no longer come to me, and then stubbornly stupid waiting to hear their own destiny.
Many people feel that this is not shot after I read it.
Douban a net friend said she has almost the same experience and Lin Jia:
Leave a bunch of things break up at her boyfriend home, so he gave me, waiting for a chance to meet, so he coaxed me to take me home.
Two days later, still did not hear his echo.
Nothing, give him two days, his machismo, it does not matter, I can wait.
Numerous times to open his circle of friends, countless times to ask what he is doing, but also silently many times to lose the text deleted.
Every time a WeChat phone, there are innumerable hopes for him, and then countless hopes come to nothing.
A long time, no news of him.
Slowly relieved, start a new life, meet new friends.
But he still stuck in his heart like a thorn.
Every corner of the city has his memories, every little thing you do, he has done with you.
Your world is him. You are full of his mind.
You can not forget him. You always feel that you will be together, your story is not over ...
Maybe he thinks so too.
However, all the possibilities are dead in silence.
04
There's another pair in this movie, Yu Fei and Dian Dian.
Meng Yun Lin Jia are simmering ideas, zero communication. And Yu Fei and Dices completely the opposite, they are exchanges in the end, what are honest confession ...
After the confession, this pair also divides his hand.
"Say anything" and "do not say anything", are the feelings of the Achilles heel, will easily place the relationship to death.
But the difference is that nothing is said, died completely died. What to say, but may return to life.
Sometimes quarrel is really a good thing, at least two people are still communicating, but as long as there is hope for communication.
Most of us, like Meng Yun and Lin Jia, have lost hope because of their habit of silence.
Fear of the feelings is simmering.
Just like you pique get out of the car, how do you know he will stop waiting for you, has been driving the door to call you on the train. In case he drove away, then there are new car.
Maybe you once again capricious, that one in micro-channel also asked you when a few people go home the next shot, she has been holding the child in the sun, the man around you do not know you, but he will accompany her for a lifetime, You surrender.
So, do not throw the person you treat as a jewel on the side of the road and let others pick it up.
We can not escape the fragmentation of the heavens, but we can avoid the brewing regret.