The birthday 30 arrive and everything is finished.

in #gems2 years ago

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I know that this is a few strong title for a post, but for much people is them really when arrive to 30 years of age, this was my reality (today I am 31 years old). The society have a big list of goals that we would finished before 30 years old, that is so overwhelming for us, because it is so much inside our brain like a drill drilling deep into our mind day by day, generating a high level of anxiety for us, and the must difficult is that for very people it is a non-existent reality.

Around the world millions of young people is living this reality, because we are living in a so difficult social environment with high requirements, jobs so demanding and small wages. This world, our world, is one when we have few opportunities of to find every goals that were imposed on us. But the problem is not the goals, having aspirations is not bad, the real problem is the world that our leaderships creating for us, put them ambitions first and destroying everything in them path.

So, what can we do about it?

The first is take the control of our life, don’t follow the masses, the trends, we must understand that just we have control of our life and that we give power to other of our life, we are losing, and this applies to all aspects of life. The life is not finished to the 30’s, there is still much for learning, for knowing, and is not important if much people try to make you feel like a loser for not getting all your goals, get up and continue working for all that you want.

Getting all of we want does not depend only of us, our environment is so determinant, and our task achieve it, is understand this and overcome the difficulties. And yes, is more easy to say it than to do it, but the first is moving, knowing the way and having the control of our life.

Probably you are questioning if I get my goals, and not, not all. But I am working in that, I put little goals myself day by day and try to complete all this little goals like part of way to complete my most great goals, and I to celebrate each my goals no matter how small is, because the first person who should believe in you is yourself.