i don't have something in particular as every case is completely different and there a lot of things that haven't yet happened to me so i can't speculate.
death of a friend or family member: from what you wrote only that i have witnessed. The days that happened i just couldn't believe it but as the days passed i keep reminded to myself to remember that person and the good times we had together. That's what i did and also after about a week of the incident i said to myself ''that's reality'' i can't bring that person back no matter what so i just had to move on with my life remembering that person