Heartbreak really hurts and this is what majority faces today that sometimes lead them into not concentrating in that in which the have planned for themselves. When emotion hits you it can cause many mental issues starting from depression, anxiety and other mental issues.
One can be very okay with himself but within minutes or seconds things can change leading to emotional damage and bringing the person to a state of confusion of not knowing what to do and the actions to take.
Sometimes when we have not being into emotional things we might not know what the impaction to the person going through it can be . Emotions can ruin things ,emotions can still fix things depending on the conditions and the aspect that thing is being felt.
Why i am writing this most especially concentrating on heartbreak as a part of emotional feelings is because i have seen a friend who almost killed herself because of the heartbreak she got through a relationship that was supposed to end in marriage but after everything it did not work out the girl really went through a lot that she even decided not to marry but rather to be alone in singlehood. just because of what a particular person did to her she now generalized all men to be the same. Though is still the same thing in both the guys and the ladies (many generalize that all men are the same while the opposite sex generalise same thing ) but this is not as we think but the thing is that the good ones are always getting into the wrong hands while the wrong ones are always getting the good ones and dealing with them in a bad way ( the case is opposite).
This girl dated a guy for more than three years they were all good in the relationship but she never knew that the guy has another plans on her which she didn't know . It was really like a surprise to her waking up one morning her friend brought to her a WhatsApp status where her guy posted his traditional marriage date with another person and the girl was really shocked and entered a serious depression that almost killed her . But thank God today that after everything that she passed through from her past experience,she later got someone that is very good that later married her and they are now leaving happily as one happy family. It is good to be emotional but to be at a safer side is better to avoid emotions though it is had to avoid because some individuals are really emotional and the don't even know how to control their emotions that is why you see people behave somehow in public sometimes because they don't really know how to control their emotions and that is when when emotional things hit them they go into depression. so let be properly guided about our emotions.
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