面试里的巧合 A Coincidence in the Interview [中文/English]



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今天去参加了一场面试,主面是对方公司的销售总经理,人事也一同参与。意外的是,那位人事姑娘竟然来自隔壁村,比我还小三岁。当她告诉我的时候,意外和尴尬同时涌上心头,这种偶遇“熟悉的陌生人”的感觉,大概只有经历过的人才懂。 以前总觉得:世界很小,城市很大,即便和旧友同处一地,不提前约好也从没偶遇过。

可偏偏这种极低概率的事,就这么真切地发生在我身上——就像当年突然发现弟弟的同学,竟和我在同一个单位共事那样。 短暂的惊讶过后,我们简单闲聊了几句,随后我便沉下心完成了整个面试。该介绍的个人情况、该说明的岗位诉求,都提到了。面试结束回家后,我特意查了查AI关于这种场景下情绪的分析,再回头复盘自己的表现,心里还算满意。

其实仔细想想,这不过是生活里一粒小小的巧合。我们只是出生地的物理距离很近,本质上仍是萍水相逢,对彼此的生活大概率不会有太大影响,未来会不会再有交集也未可知。但不得不承认,从最初的意外尴尬,到闲聊时的释然,再到复盘后的平静,这颗“巧合的石子”,确实在心里漾起过一阵细碎的起伏,让这场普通的面试,多了点特别的记忆刻度。

I had an interview today. The main interviewer was the company's sales general manager, and an HR staff was also there. To my surprise, The village where the HR girl was born is right next to mine When she told me that, I felt surprised and embarrassed at the same time. I think only people who have experienced this can understand the feeling of meeting a "familiar stranger".
I used to think: the world is small, but cities are big.Even if an old friend and I live in the same city, we never run into each other unless we plan it ahead.
But such a low-chance thing really happened to me—just like when I suddenly found out my younger brother's classmate worked at the same company as me.
(much like the time I suddenly found out my younger brother’s classmate was my colleague.)

After a little surprise, we chatted for a short time. Then I calmed down and finished the whole interview. I talked about all my personal information and job needs that I should mention. When I got home after the interview, I checked AI's analysis on feelings in this kind of situation. Then I looked back at my performance, and I was quite satisfied.
In fact, when I think carefully, this is just a small coincidence in life. We only live close to each other in our hometowns. Basically, we are just people who met by chance. This meeting will probably not affect each other's lives much, and we don't know if we will meet again in the future. But I have to say, from the initial surprise and embarrassment, to feeling relaxed during the chat, and then calm after reviewing, this "coincidence stone" really made small ripples in my heart. It made this ordinary interview have a special memory.


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