You are very, very kind. Lori's daughter had an audio recording of the conversation. I didn't recount all of it here, and I never will. Suffice to say, she asked Lori (for posterity's sake) to reminisce about the sisters. She had a cute story or fond memory for the other sisters, but for me, she could only say.... that thing she said.
Ah, I didn't think to look at PeakD! I was looking for a comment you'd made to me, reassuring me that to "do nothing" can be a good thing.
dance to be still
move to stay put
do nothing be you
She actually said WORSE THINGS after that thing she said, but I'm trying to believe that the weird "I'm sorry" text really was somehow, mystically, generated by Lori, as an actual apology for having said the sh*t she said, but I'm learning that DNA (and even bonemarrow) doth not a sister make.