wow! congrats tp u! :) 20 years is no small number. u WERE destined to be together.
and shopping, shopping! :P isn't it so true.. women and the shopping~ :P
I found it odd that even the official who married me and mt wife asked me to 'let' my wife work.. I guess that is something debated in Asian culture.. not in usa, though.. it is very common to have both partners working.
I think, that is more of a decision between the couple, here also many work to earn more, but then somewhere they will have to compromise.