I'm a loser who's achieved nothing. I have no future and no ambition; this has to be somebody else's fault so I'll find a way I'm a victim. Then all that weight will fall from my shoulders. I can tell myself I never got a fair shot; that the game was rigged; that if I just had some basic level of support I'd have been a whole different, successful person by now.
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Now let me find some more ways to victimise myself further.
Indeed telling people they are victims actually does then a disservice. It takes away their agency and makes them further victimise themselves, because we tend to believe what people tell us.