Also... I'd like to drop a comment here for my beautiful daughter if she ever makes her way over here...
That I'm so sorry I never "saw" or understood male privilege at all and she suffered so badly because of my ignorance. And our family's ignorance.
And I thought I was "liberated", "educated" and "woke".
My bad... :(
I totally unconsciously allowed her to get hurt because of this as well. Before I knew better. I simply thought some stuff was "normal" and never even thought to question it further :/
Equality without accounting for inequality is not equality at all. Take the hungry child at school vs the well fed as one example... this becomes very clear. <3
Hopefully you will get to sit and talk this out, obviously something that needs to be addressed together.