It's sad that in today's world one needs to add a note saying they aren't profiting off being a decent caring human being and simply being kind and non-judgemental. :/
Very telling, huh?
I wouldn't think for one second you did it for any reason other than being kind and caring. More... I bet if more people took the time to stop and talk to Jamie, it would help him recover in every way... I hope more people like you stop by.
I'd say not to give people in addiction cash though. Food, clothing etc perhaps... or there are shelters that sell vouchers for hot meals, showers and beds.
It's an unfortunate situation. Addiction is a beast and it demands feeding above personal care and safety :(
Also... if you grab a 12 Step meeting schedule for the area and encourage him to go along (tell him he'll get free biscuits and coffee as incentive because he will!), he may hear what they call "the message" (that recovery IS possible) and find his way back.
Because recovery IS possible and the 12 Steps working wonderfully. And the meetings and support is entirely freely gifted.
You did good, Sam! I'm proud to know you and grateful to have met you ❤️😊
hi Nicky 🤗 I am sure there are many more people who do the same all the time, but thank you for your kind words. I felt it was put on my heart to help him... and I think the conversation meant more to him than the money. It meant something to me. He told me he was in rehab for alcoholism so who knows. I will look up the 12 steps; thank you for that tip, Nicky💗 I'll catch you soon xx !PIZZA
Hmmmm... not too many these days...
I think mos people are too afraid of the grit and pain of a struggle like that.
Yes. Just validating and caring can keep a person live and keeping on!
Just to warn you that addiction makes people really dishonest. They lie to cover their using all of the time. Also hardly their fault as the shame around addiction is immense.
I know how empathetic and sensitive you are so just keep some distance and take of you, please.
If you do decide to stop and talk to him again and need guidance feel free to reach out. I have a decent amount of experience with addiction. But he should probably get some grief counseling as well by the sound of things.
Take care of you, gentle soul. Sending love ❤️
I so appreciate your words of wisdom, Nicky... very valuable. And yes I had considered that it may not all be honest... but his grief seemed very real. I will ask him about grief counseling next time I see him. That is a very good point 🙏💗 But yes... I will keep some distance... whilst still sharing of my heart xx !LUV !LADY
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