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At the moment both live on premises, younger is now looking to move with his wife to New Zealand. Not sure how that will work during these times. His Aunt (my husbands only sister) has been living there for the last thirty years.

Ah yes, these are very tough times and we are all looking for a better place to be. It's also hard to be in different countries and not always easy to find a base where all are happy

I doubt I will ever leave South Africa, however would love to move slightly inland or off of what was a quiet country road to a quieter area.

Sons must make their decision as to where they feel happy, I will assist them in every way possible to get to where they wish to be, happiness comes first.

Only thing a mother can do - is help her kids to find happiness. So good that they have your support.