Hey guyz! How is your day today? Is it better than yesterday or bitter than yesterday lol! Anyway, I want to share with you about family matter and as well a friendly family circle. Well, we live a simple life here in the countryside. My father, when he was still alive, love to plant fruit trees. He keeps telling us that this trees will benefit his grandchildren. Even he will pass away, this fruit trees will serve as remembrance and a proof how he loves his grand children. Way back 2021, my father passed away and yearly, we harvest the fruit trees he planted. One of it is the rambutan. With this fruit, my father planted three different variety. One is the macapuno, the most expensive variety and very sweet and smell good. The other one is the red which is sour even ripe, and the other one is the yellow type which is sweet but not that expensive when sold.
With this kind of rambutan, I want to relate in family matters.
First, family is like macapuno, sweet and need to take good care of it since it is easy attack by insects and it is expensive when sold to market. Family must be guarded, must have a firm foundation of love, trust and loyalty to overcome temptation that will affect the family relationship. When family has a weak foundation of love, trust and loyalty it will create war inside home.Even staying together, surely hatred will slowly drain our heart.
Second, family is like the yellow one, it is not expensive but sweet and not not that kind of rambutan easy to attack by insect but need still to be take good care of it. As parent, we need to guide our children even they are in the age which we think that they are already matured. Let us remember that age doesn't define maturity but mindset matter. Maturity is when well developed physically, socially, spiritually and mentally. Let us be their mentor and shoulder to cry on when they need us.
Third, the red one, this rambutan are big in size, if ripe it is juicy but a little bit sour. It is like family that even we are blessed materially but inside our home, have no peace, full of bitterness and no happiness, our family is in chaos every day.
Family with healthy relationship will always be in peace, happiness and full of love and gratefullness every day.Even they face problem and conflict, they choose peace and love. They talk and discuss peacefully about the problem and make sure everybody are involve.
To attain a healthy relationship is that we must have a transformed and renewed mindset every day.Make our family, our spouse, our parent our children the reason to be grateful, aspiration to keep moving on, make our day agood day. If we are tired then take a rest. Make our home a sweet home, our safe place our comfort place and our resting place and being with our family members should be the best comforting time and our stress reliever. Have time to talk peacefully,be the best listener and comforter to each and everyone. Let not vices, clubs, parties,drugs and crazy things replace us.
Thank you cor reading my simple thought and sorry for not being good in writing 😁
Have a good day everyone!
