"I Stopped Blaming My Parents — and My Life Changed”
There was a season in my life when I used to blame my parents for everything. From JSS3 to SS3, I looked at where we were, what we had, and I became angry, disappointed, and unsatisfied. “Why are we living like this? Why are we not in a mansion? Why are we not seen or heard on television?” These questions consumed my heart, and bitterness was growing.
In this picture, my twin brother and my parents are in the picture, with a friend of mine. My parents are by my right hand site and my twin brother is on the left side end. The picture was captured during an event a participate and became among the winners
But one day, the Holy Spirit began to warn and teach me: “Stop blaming your parents. Stop blaming people for your life. Your future is not their limitation.” From that moment, I began to build myself and yield to the voice and direction of God. I started learning independence, how to survive, how to grow, how to think, and how to face hardship with courage.
Books, including some by John Maxwell, opened my eyes to leadership and purpose. I realized I didn’t need to travel to America to become great, I could bring greatness to where I was. The Holy Spirit separated me, equipped me, and reminded me of Philippians 4:13: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
Today, I no longer complain. Instead, I am becoming the evidence. I challenged myself to make my parents proud, and by God’s help, I am standing before kings. Blame changed nothing, but the Holy Spirit changed me. 🙏💪🏽🔥💫
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That's a great approach to life.
Congratulations to you and best wishes,more to celebrate.
Thank you dear I strongly believe there's more to come.
You're absolutely right 👍 you have nothing to blame on your failure but your own self and mind. No one can do to your future unless you let them, but still the decision is yours as they say, your decision today will be your situation tomorrow. So nothing to be blame but you yourself. So instead of blaming, try to self checked and make sure to correct and stand on your own feet, the people around are just a decorations who will help you or not in decision making for your own life.
Wow that's awesome, I really appreciate it, your contributions to this really inspired me the more. Can we be friends... @segundolhou29
You're welcome 🤗 sure, why not. Hehe 😅
oh wow that's awesome thank you.