Goodness, how did auto-correct do me so dirty! π€£ Yes structured- or perhaps we can make a new word out of whatever heinous typo that was? hahaha
I like to schedule as little as possible because it stresses me out to have to be on time.
I deeply relate to this. Personally, I'm a "Have to get ready at 10am for the event at 1pm" kinda person. For this reason, I tend to wait until the last moment to agree to anything that I am not 100% into. It took me longer than I'd like to admit to accept that it is totally okay to say no.
I have a ton of work to do when it comes to honoring myself in this department... Reading the thoughts of people like yourself helps solidify and strengthen my resolve in not creating mental traps for myself. π