the edges of yourself begin to dissolve.
That's exactly what happens after nearly 50 years in a close relationship, and that's why the loss of a partner feels like a part of one is ripped away.
A strong woman (and man) acknowledges the co-dependency which is vital for a long and happy partnership. It's just as important as giving each other space to be yourself.
Enjoy the cuddles, the togetherness, the nurturing, they are immensely precious.
Oh @lizelle , I get it. Mum is about to lose Dad and it breaks my heart. Don't worry stories like yours - and theirs - make us hold on tighter. Jamie's an awful romantic too ... He believes in our marriage like anything and the worse thing for him is the thought of losing me, which is rather sweet.
My heart goes out to all of you, and your Mum especially.
Speaking for myself, it's the absolute worst thing that's ever happened to me.
Your Mum still has to face that battle. Even though she knows, the reality will only hit her when he's gone.
Life can be so fabulous, but also awfully heartbreaking!
Your Mom will have to dig deep to find that inner strength, which I believe we all have, not an easy journey xxx
I feel so sorry for her. And you. Xx