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RE: Sam’s Hangout #109 - “COHABITATION OR COMMITMENT?”

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I'll like to tackle this from the religious, cultural and personal aspect. Most of the religious people are against it because it's against what the belief or what they have been told to believe because it's a "sin". So to them, there's no way around that. I'm not religious anyways. In the cultural aspect, nothing much on that because in some cultures, some are in support whilst some ain't. But looking at it from my personal view, I see no bad in it because I'm in support. Now in general, cohabiting boils down to the people involved, if they like it, no one should stop them and it builds deeper love if those people understand eachother, it is definitely a test for compatibility which they can easily work on what they like and don't should they end up together eventually. Though without it, what is going to work will work. But in my opinion, I'm not against it because this relationship thing works differently for everyone. And no women should be falsed to give up her independence in the process.

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My dear I lost my value in the process and literally questioned my sanity.

So I strongly say no to cohabitation

From what I know, intentionality always comes first when two people want to cohabit. Meaning you guys should have a clear and shared value and lemme say a very defined path towards marriage. But if you go into it without a clear purpose, my dear that is the problem people always have. If you are unconscious in a relationship, how will cohabiting work out?