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Good day everyone being a kid is one of the memorable things in life and is so sweet and enjoyable during the days of old when i was a kid i really enjoyed it though those days was full of memorable things though I miss some part of things during my kid days and it went far to keep me into thinking anytime i see those things done by kids (children).
Not staying with my parents really affected me a lot which also affected my days as a kid.
As a kid the first thing i missed was how to ride bicycle :
During those days i was staying with my grandparents because me and my elder brother was the first grandchildren of the house and my grandfather has an upstairs so always All the times we been up in the house without coming down and this makes it anytime we see our follow kids playing we will be piping them from upstairs because our grandparents don't always allow us to go down stairs to associate with others because they see it that others will corrupt us if we associate with them and this really affected me because that time even to associate with other kids was a problem and seeing and seeing them play and seeing them drive bicycle is really interesting and I really wanted to follow them then but due my grandparents not allowing it makes me i couldn't go and join them and nowadays it really pained me a lot that i couldn't learn the bicycle then and now i am trying to learn it and is becoming a hard thing for me as an adult,some times the kid will use you as a caricature when you are learning and the funniest part of it is that is now a kid that is teaching me how to drive the bicycle it has not been easy for me since then but gradually am getting use to it.
The worst thing that can happen is learning what you are suppose to learn as a kid at old age is really frustrating and sometimes you feel ashamed of your self during the learning .
Also leaving in a boys boarding school and from a family of only boys has really affected me .
This affect me in such a way that i find it difficult to associate with girls am always shy in their midsts and these has always affected me even to get a friend is a problem and this have really affected my relationship with them some times my friends do laugh at me and is really embarrassing,this has really been a very big challenge that has really affected my life because it has been really had on me and this has made me i am always on my own .
In conclusion restrictions of kids from playing with other kids is not that good though at times is good to avoid injury but for me there is more good benefits of it than bad .
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Haven’t learned that either. Wasn’t in that place of privilege. But true, kids should learn as early as they can.
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I can relate to the bicycle part lol,I as well started riding bicycle properly as of last year.
it wasn't easy ooo
Parents in their protective nature forgets that children needs to socialize from a young age.
Your grandparents were right in trying to protect you but then the shouldn't have made it so you didn't mingle at all.
As for learning to rise bicycle, you can still learn it now if you really want to.
Thank you for sharing.
Yes dear
For the leaning of bicycle i will put my mind in it
Thanks for reading
I can relate very well with this modern day of training children especially in the city where children are locked up and not allowed to come and play with other kids. I frown at it though because it makes some children to be dull.
As for me, anyone that can't ride a common bicycle is a complete ajebo 😎