Growing up in a family of four with all boys, and you know in this life so far you are given birth to as a boy, there are a lot of responsibilities waiting for you even before you even recognize them, they start showing up gradually. So my father use to be a civil servant and who has worked in the government sector for over 20 years and I could remember when he retired from that work, I was just in secondary school junior class 3 which is known as jss3.
Before then, things has been going on smoothly in the aspect of financing the fees and every other things in the household, that was when I started seeing some realities that as a man you have a lot to offer. So after the retirement things changed and there was no more smooth way in terms of financing, things became different and the first time I would be sent back home for school fees then when I was in my senior class 1(ss1) I was down, but I just have to stay up and stand strong. Struggling to finish the secondary school and move to the higher institution is where the real phase began.
Looking at the fact that the retired man was getting old and i won't want to pressure anyone for money to pay fees, I realized the task of been a man is not an easy one, trying to find things which will fetch money and every little money i saw then i would try to make it double and bring more to the extent that i was into betting which saved me in some cases and did otherwise too, lol. So gradually i was able to meet some friend that put me up in some line of business which started changing me and i was able to see some money from there story is changing.
Now back to the matter of been a male child, we are four, the elder one are also building the betterment of their life and you could know how last born might be trying to call the elder ones every time when they needed something. Most of the expenses of the last born during the school days was catered for by the elder one and he never knew what life was then, after he graduated from the tertiary institution, now the reality was upon him, when he called for money and the statement the eldest said was that you are now a graduate let's find money together lol.
Thinking of the fact that he is also a male child but the stage he has gotten to is now different so everyone in the hustle world even though there are still much times to call the elder ones and all will be done for him but it is minimal because life as a male child is different and money must be made. Betterment for all is what is necessary and that is being achieved at the end of the day..
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