Let's talk about a few things men do that peeve me as a woman! But before I proceed, I will love to make it clear that not all men really do these things I am about to discuss today, but of course, good numbers of men do this a lot, and it's simply annoying.
One of such things is their never apologizing attitude. As simple as this word "I am sorry," a lot of men find it so difficult to voice it out when they are wrong. Could it be their ego stopping them from telling their partners a simple sorry? We understand that men are the head of the family, but an apology is a great way to settle disputes and leave peacefully. Sometimes, men like apologizing through actions, maybe by buying gifts for their women when they offend them. Personally, I don't like receiving gifts in place of apologies. Even if you want to gift me to melt my heart, first let me see that you are remorseful over the wrong you did. Don't be too big to own up to your actions; just do the needful so we can move ahead instead of buying me a gift in place of an apology.
Another thing men do that irritates me is when they say "I'm fine," but deep down within them, they are dying slowly. It can be worrisome seeing your man acting moody, seeing him suddenly become cold, and when you care to ask what went wrong, he prefers to swallow his pain and pretend that all is well. The pain they are going through is so glaring, but yet, they will say, I am fine. They forgot to realize that sometimes, their partner may be their relief system when they share what bothers them. Why not just say something instead of keeping us in suspense? It's annoying, men; just communicate whatever the issue might be!
Some men also have a double face; let me just put it that way, but what I mean is that some of them like to act differently around their friends or family. For instance, when you hang out with your man where friends are or even family, they will try to impress them, acting nice and romantic, whereas at home, they are something else, very difficult to approach kind of men at home, but out there, they become so nice overnight, lol. I have a friend like that who uses such an opportunity to request something from his husband in the midst of his friends. There and there, the husband will attend to her! living to impress others, oh please!
Finally, I get upset when I see men that aren't considerate at all. You will be in the house, pressing your phone and scrolling through the whole street of social media, and then your woman is doing the whole chores at home, overworking herself, attending to your children alongside, and if she fails to meet up with the dinner or any other thing at the supposed time, you get flared up and keep shouting at her. Excuse me, what happened to your hands? Can't you be supportive and make your relationship so sweet? It's just annoying to see this kind of man. Consider that woman; she can be tired because she is not a robot; she is only your helpmate.
There are still many others I have in mind, but I better stop here before some men eat me raw, hahaha.
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Chai, this table you are shaking. Let's hope they will not come for you. !lol
That not apologizing part is very, very annoying, how hard can it be to accept they are wrong, apologize, and promise to do better next time?
Dear men, apologizing to your woman when you are wrong, doesn't make you weak or less of a man but shows you are responsible and mature.
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Hehehe 😃...I only shake the table little oo 😂, to avoid commotion
I hope they hear this your statement here, but the strong headed ones wouldn't.. lolz
Hahaha, let's hope they will listen 👂
Should I say anything? Nope
Why?
Nkem will bully me😂. !LOL
By the way, I don't fully support or deny your points because I think I need to understand the situation first.
Saying no more because it's a controversy which will never end..
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Hahaha 😂😂😂, better tell me why you guys hardly say sorry oo 🤣 and all these concerns, I will not bully you, who am I 🤣🤣🤣
Why will I say sorry when I didn't done anything wrong. I can say about myself only.
Uhm regarding the apology, I do apologize o but only if I am at fault and 99% of the time, I am not at fault so why should I apologize lol
When we are troubled, the way we men are wired, we just know that whatever problem we are facing, we will be the ones to find the solution to it ourselves, so what is the essence of discussing it? Some men will tell their wives what they are facing regarding finances, and a few hours later, she will still ask him for money for a wig or something she needs, so is there any need to tell one's problem to such a woman?
If the woman is a full housewife, why does she need the husband's help with chores? it is fine to take care of the baby together but why expect a man who returned from work to join you to do chores again, freedom for men! lol
But I don't support a man shouting at his wife cos the food was not ready in time, you can eat out and find something to eat, women truly need rest too.
Lol..if you really do apologize, good job on that 👍
Ahh! 🤣🤣🤣
What kind of woman would make financial demands in the midst of a financial challenge?
Well, it happens...I trust my gender to do the unimaginable, but what about some women that are truly supportive? If u have such wife, u don't have reason to hurd ur problems even if u think that you can solve the issues yourself
Even if you are too tired to support, men should know when to really consider their wives regardless
Some don't care, once they drop money, they want you to make magic.. kilode.
Lol
All of this are really annoying! But like a comment have said, some men takes more time to mature and understand these things and what it means to be a man.
So I won't say much again, hopefully we would have more men being true men and not just putting up the act of "I am a man" 🤧
Indeed maturity is important to help curtail some of their excesses
It's simply annoying 🥺
We be trippin sometimes, but we don't mean nothing by it. It takes time for some of us to truly mature as well...
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Hehehe 😃, I agree with you that some men really needs maturity in many ways, at least to keep a good relationship
IT'S NATURAL WITH MEN NOT WANTING TO BE A BOTHER THAT'S WHY THEY MAY SAY THE WORDS "IT'S FINE", EVEN THOUGH IT'S NOT. BUT I'VE COME TO REALIZE THAT STRENGTH IS ABOUT CONFIDING IN SOMEONE AND BEING WILLING TO ACCEPT HELP
Confiding in someone when in trouble isn't bad... especially ur partner unless you don't believe in her
I've seen these habits play out in relationships and they can be super draining. Apologizing doesn't kill anyone's pride, and communication is key. Being genuine and considerate goes a long way too. Thanks for calling out these annoying habits.
Yea..it can be draining
Hopefully those concern will adjust for the better
Most men forget this. They literally turn it the other way around. It takes confident to say sorry when they never see themselves as being wrong, only few men do that.
I.love this statement...
Yesooo....Mr right always, holy men!
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Lol. Yeah, they always feel they try not to make mistakes so they are almost never wrong.
Exactly 😃
I totally agree with you. Some guys can be really annoying when they don't apologize, don't communicate their feelings, or pretend to be someone they're not. It's also frustrating when they're not considerate of their partner's efforts. You're right, guys should be more thoughtful and honest in relationships.
I wish those concern become more thoughtful...we will see greater and sweeter relationships
Don't apologize to me whenever you are wrong but please help me to do the house chores. After all, you didn't marry me as a slave😂😂
All your points are valid👍 If they like, they turn a new leaf after reading this post or they continue in their annoying manners🤷
Ahh, hahaha 🤣🤣🤣
House chores? Lmao 🤣...some men really do it oo and I commend those men oo
My dear, I hope they change oo 🤣😂🤣
Kudos to them👏👏👏👏
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Ahahaha you see that part of saying I am fine when all is not well, 🤣😂🤣🤣
I think it takes grace for a some men to tell you they are not fine..
Hehehe 😃
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