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RE: Sam's Hangout #73- “CHOOSING A PARTNER”

in Hive Naija8 months ago

This is an interesting topic. Let the gbas gbos begin because we are wired differently and so can't always see things from the same perspective.

Three qualities that I desire In a partner are:

1.)Home Management Experience:
This quality is very important because marriage is a business that happens on a stage called HOME. A lady who has got an experience on how to manage a home(maybe while she was a spinster in school or any other environment) has got the experience of financial management, home management and basic housekeeping at a go.

2.)Level of Morality:
Trust is one the most important things in marriage. A lady who has a high moral standard will produce the following fruits: trust, love, fidelity and decency. The good thing is that, she can easily relay these fruits to her children.

3.)Supportive:
Women are meant to be helpers/supporters to their husband. A supportive partner can easily motivate her partner. She will play the support role and not make the man to be retrogressive. Emphasis is on SUPPORT.

What's your thoughts @lecia89 @uniquezee @justfavour @agmoore @beckyroyal @sam.hangout @treasuree

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I already shared my thoughts jawe. You go need search am down down

You never talk the one you fit compromise

Alright. Regarding the one I can compromise. I can accept if she is NOT supportive. I can sweep that one under the carpet. @lecia89

Hmmm that's cool

Yep. But I can't trade moral standards and home management; for any reason. I value rest of mind so much, and so wouldn't want someone that will give me headache and turn me to an emergency talkative person🤣

🤣😂the emergency talk active got me 😂😂

Hahaha. I don't like emergency at all. I can tolerate headache from kids, but not from an adult. It's a no no for me.

Do fancy an adult that gives you headache??

No no I don't have strength o

These qualities you wrote here are cool 👍 but I hope you can also be the same thing or give the same thing that you are looking for.

This means that you should also be a good manager, morally upright and supportive too 😁😁😁

Haha @beckyroyal you chose to give me a dose of my own medicine.

Surely I have such qualities that's why I prefer someone with same profile.

Alright 😂😂

I strongly agree with the third one. It takes two supportive people to build a home.

You are very correct. With the global economic crisis. There is need for both parties to work together for a better financial life @justfavour

I'm glad you agree.

That's fair enough if you're willing to reciprocate it...

It's a nice one

Yes. I don't expect from others what I cannot do. I believe in the golden rule. Best regards!

Awwwn🥰

Sounds nice and good of you 💯

Thank you. This topic is very interactive. Everyone is learning too. Because learning never ends.