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RE: Sam’s Hangout #87 - “INTERNATIONAL MEN’S DAY”

in Hive Naija10 days ago

God bless All Men trying their best!!!

Being a man is such a difficult thing especially in our era and you know why it is so?

It is because even your immediate family members expects heaven from you
It gets so bad that a point, you get scared of where you once called HOME because of the unpredictable things someone might say to you subtly or with seriousness.

The weight men carry is just so much, is it the financial pressure? Is it the Peer pressure? Is it the fear of failure at the place of work?

It's just so enormous to mention.

And to cap it all, "MEN DON'T CRY" which invariably means you can't even find someone to share the burdens of your challenges with because when you do and eventually it was the wrong person, they see it that you're complaining and that you are weak.

And for people that will listen, you know what they eventually tell you? They tell you to "MAN UP" and be a man as if you were a woman.

Men have ego and rather than being seen as weak and complainers, they will rather keep the problem to themselves.

Men rather take the last spot in life rather than allowing their problems look important to worry someone even when it should be something to worry about.

It's well

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My bosss, welcome to this week’s hangout

Thanks my chief

See your contribution busting my head lol

Hehehe, e no easy for men aswr

Hmmmm. I feel responsible man out there struggles, they are expected of a lot

Yes oh my dear