Disappointment affect the human emotions and psychological approach towards a particular thing. A lot of people change because of how disappointed they were and who the disappointment was coming from. However disappointment always come when we have hope or expecting something, you may not really be expecting something specific from an individual but then there are some expectation a person is meant to reach or hold, when the individual first to hold up to those expectations and you trust him or have hopes on him or her you get disappointed. The reason why most of us are being disappointed, is the moment you expect that someone can do this or that. You assume or expect that a friend of yours we keep to the promise which he or she met with you or will never in anyway break the code, and Boom your trust is been broken and turned down, first you will feel disappointed and hurt as well.
You know it hurts so much when it is coming from someone who you love or a friend of yours. Just like we already know as an individual we have hurt someone in one way or the other and when you're done also we have been hurt however most of us come and we talk about how we have been hurts or disappointed. I can remember when a friend of mine I have high hopes on and I turn down to disappoint him which was so painful at last I have to go back to him when I realize how hurt he is, those my actions were so unknown to me that I was actually hurting him on I disappointed him, however you started distancing me and stop talking to me the way we used to vibe and I have to start asking myself or the problem is, oh do I was not able to come up with a good reason because I had no intention that those my actions will make him feel disappointed then I have to just ask my about that particular action if that is the problem and he said yes and then he started explaining how he expected much more from me and I disappointed him I have to apologize for those actions and immediately we settle our difference.
Then the another Big Question is, when they hurt you will they still come back to you to talk out things. Being disappointed is not just the end of the world rather it is just that your expectations from an individual was not reached by the said person which I have been in such position, when I have this high hopes over my friend, I don't keep much close friends but the only one I had made me regret accepting our friendship and that is one of the main reasons that change my idea of friendship entirely. Although I had much high expectations from him, that's why I do my things and expect something in return, because this friend of mine actually depends on me then for over 6 months without us having issues, I didn't complain about it, rather I will always encourage him that it will actually be better someday, when it finally gets better and he started earning so token to himself, my Gee avoid me and change his circle and I was like wow and from that period I just had to let him be and I learnt alot from his actions and that's life, it happens.
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