Hello everyone, how are you? I hope you're doing well. What if I were in a relationship with a partner? Actually, I'm not a very open person at first. When I first meet, I immediately assess their perspective. Starting with their views on feminism. Should women work or be housewives?
Then, the most important thing is whether they support my dreams or not. Before deciding to fall in love and be together, I have a list of initial questions. Actually, these questions become commonplace conversations when we talk and meet. After that, I can assess whether I'm ready to fall in love and have a future with my potential partner.
So, I'll create a long list of criteria and questions, and based on the answers to those questions, I can decide whether we can fall in love and live together. The questions are quite specific, especially my views on Islam and feminism. From those answers, I can determine whether we can be on the same page or different.
I also have other commitments, and I don't allow infidelity. If that happened in my romantic relationship, I would obviously leave immediately. For me, this is the foundation on which I build a relationship. Furthermore, if our perspectives are the same, we can discuss how to find a solution and a solution in a relationship.
I think ahead, if a commitment has been broken, it's difficult for me to rebuild trust. We're talking about marriage; marriage is a long-term relationship and should last a lifetime. What needs to be maintained is commitment. Our initial commitment to building a relationship.
But, friendships don't seem to be this complicated. I'm quite open to making friends with many people. What I see in friendships? Simply: can we respect each other despite our differing perspectives.
Humans always choose to live with the same perspective. In the midst of this, can we respect each other's differing perspectives? That's all I can say. What do you think? Are you the same as me?
My name is Nurdiani Latifah. I live in Jakarta – Indonesia, and after 25 years I live in Bandung. I am a media staff at an NGO in Indonesia. I have worked in this institution for almost 2 years on issues of women and peace. I have been a journalist in Bandung for 3 years.
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If you surround yourself with people who support your dreams then there is nothing stopping you from making it happen.
Nope, I don't have a list of things I want in a partnership. Assuming I fell in true love, it I do...... Nothing else matters.
Be yourself! But I can change your others if I love them.