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the thing is that how we cope with setbacks is also affected by genetics, as is our relationships with the people around us and environments - it is hard to tease them apart.

I have been back at work for a week - I don't really remember having a vacation at all - but I have a couple weeks coming up in mid-August still.

I like to believe more that even 1% which depends on me (my willpower) will be decisive.