A good leader is made. Through experiences and failures and successes. I think that a true leader can cope wigh high pressure and failures and still manage to keep themselves and their followers together. Leadership is more than influence. Leaderships leaves long lasting effects even after the leader is long gone. I notice great personalities still influencing some of today's generations. Pillars of wisdom and wit. For me, a great leaders leads the world thinking generations ahead. A thing which a mere Instagram influencer is far from achieving. True leaders, who lead not through force, lies, but by their strong character and endurance, are very rare.
Perhaps impossible - to lead one has to be in front, not with a whip at the back.
Yes. Leading by force and from the back never proved to achieve good long lasting result