omg yes!
That's exactly it!
For those who get attacked I used to be bothered and tried to over-explain it and still they got offended, but that was good, I came to realize how those who truly care, respect my time
And for those I got a new approach "just like your phone I have a battery, but a "social battery". if your phone dies, you recharge it, that's the same for me"
It's good to know I'm not the only one like this :D :D
That's a really good way to put it!