Why is the sad story being made? Who is responsible for this? Our society or our own thoughts!
In fact, I am a bit of an exception, which is why all my transactions are with certain people. Like we have a lot of salon shops in our area but I only go to a specific one in a shop to get a regular haircut. For some reason that shop doesn't have the specific boy, but I keep my hair long. Because I work only through those whom I like.
Anyway back to the real thing. When I went to the salon last night to get a haircut, I heard a sad story on the boy's face. In fact, I have formed quite a friendship with that boy. Which is why most of the time he shares his family stories with me, sometimes I try to give my advice on all those things. But whatever I suggested, the boy accepted it with a smile.
One of her close relatives got married several months ago with the consent of the family. But some days the marriage broke up. Due to which the mental condition of his relative is not very good. I was really a little surprised, because this kind of thing is happening again and again in our country lately. But why is this happening? No one is thinking about it!
To be honest, the social culture of our country is not like this, once a marriage is divorced, it will be forgotten very quickly and another marriage will take place next time. Because in many cases we believe in a marriage and try to build a good relationship and keep it for life. And this culture has been going on in our country for many ages. This is why we try to hold on to it.
I do not know, what are the underlying reasons? But I always support the girls in this matter. Because one thing we should keep in mind is that a girl leaves her long known circle and everyone in her family and enters into a family of strangers through marriage. So whatever the situation we should give the girl enough time so that she gets a chance to build a good relationship with everyone.
And I think in this case the boy and everyone in the boy's family should have the mentality to accept some sacrifice. Because a newcomer will not be able to master all the rules easily. In that case, if there is any kind of mistake, it should be accepted with forgiveness. Because divorce not only destroys the girl's life, but also the boy's life in most cases.
So we should try not to create unrest in life, but to keep all family relationships intact. Every family can be bound by a strong bond of love. Relationships can be made happier by building good relationships with everyone. And the mentality of accepting the sacrifice can play a major role in this.
Declaration: This is original content of mine with own photography.
Thanks all for visiting my writing.
আমি মোঃ হাফিজ উল্লাহ, চাকুরীজীবী। বাংলাদেশী হিসেবে পরিচয় দিতে গর্ববোধ করি। বাঙালী সংস্কৃতি ও ঐতিহ্য লালন করি। ব্যক্তি স্বাধীনতাকে সমর্থন করি, তবে সর্বদা নিজেকে ব্যতিক্রমধর্মী হিসেবে উপস্থাপন করতে পছন্দ করি। পড়তে, শুনতে এবং লিখতে ভালোবাসি। নিজের মত প্রকাশের এবং অন্যের মতামতকে মূল্যায়নের চেষ্টা করি। ব্যক্তি হিসেবে অলস এবং ভ্রমন প্রিয়।
Connect with Discord: hafizullah#3419
hello dear friend @hafizullah good morning
I loved your post, the words you say in it invite a reflection, the family is very important for the growth of societies.
I really appreciate that you touched on this topic and shared your opinion about it
have a happy saturday, enjoy it with your family
Hello Dear good Evening
Thanks your wonderful expression about my writing.
Yes all the time it is very important for our life. Thanks again for visiting.
I was humbled by these words broken marriages everywhere, its very worrisome that humans can no longer tolerate each other.
Marriage used to be sweet and a great achievements in the past, but these days its very scary to decide whom to love and who to be with.
:( it is sad for me to hear it again.