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I don’t think we should discuss this here… I’m not sure if there’s any way we could have a short talk, I’ve asked a few friends but been futile and if you can’t help then I’ll just follow your advice. Please 🙏

I am not an expert and don't think I will be in a good position to offer any good advise. Hope you will find a better source of help

It's fine.... But just few minutes to tell you about the situation won't hurt, Bitte. If it's hard to help them maybe I'll understand. It's not good feeling helpless

I am not using discord these days, so the only way asking me for my opinion will be here