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And one experiencing love does not fear losing it, for he has discovered there is nowhere he can go where love will not be, for he is love... freedom from desire is the heart of true love.

Love cannot fear, if you fear losing love, you haven’t really found it yet!

So would you say that those who are jealous are not truly in love?

Well, I would say those who are jealous are not extending pure unconditional love, which would never be jealous. I would add, however, that from my viewpoint most people who are ‘in love’ are only touching the the lowest levels of pure divine love, and many relationships are based as much on satisfying selfish desires as they are about freely extending love.

For example, many women seek relationships for security while men seek them for the sex, rather than solely to experience love. That is not to say that many who are ‘in love’ are not truly experiencing and extending love to their partners, I just think in many cases it is a limited and conditional form of love, hence the arising of jealousy and fear and what not.

Well, I would say those who are jealous are not extending pure unconditional love, which would never be jealous. I would add, however, that from my viewpoint most people who are ‘in love’ are only touching the the lowest levels of pure divine love, and many relationships are based as much on satisfying selfish desires as they are about freely extending love.

We seem to be in agreement.

We just need to draw a bright line between what most people call "love" and "unconditional unity".