Lol! My mum is not the best cook. We just got it boiled, plain and simple and in big chunks. The cabbage put me off cooked cabbage for years. Stringy nastiness. I prefer it raw even now. It doesn't help that the smell of cooked cabbage reminds me of my grandma's farts. She used to fart as she walked, apologising as she went. 🤣
I’m also not big on peas, but hubby likes them, so I've gotten used to them on occasion.
Here we call that crop dusting. 🤣