Feedback and criticism are two different things. Before we talk about how feedback can help us grow and what is the necessity of it, we should be clear about this. But you will find many who find it really difficult to accept any kind of feedback.
In this corporate busy world, everything is decided on the basis of feedback. If we don't adjust ourselves to accepting feedback, what others have to say about our work; we would face problems with growth and personal development. But are we all in the position to accept feedback? I think not.
We have to understand that here we are not only talking about feedback on our work but also about everything. People nowadays believe in 'my life, my rule'. And many don't care how negative impacts they are creating. Remember, it's not necessary to follow feedbacks but it's essential to get a clear idea of what people are thinking.
There is no need to say the feedback has a direct link with self-development. When we start learning how to accept feedback for our better we certainly can do better in life.
Feedbacks gives us a clear insight into what we are doing in life. Maybe we are into our passion and fulfilling our purposes but having the feedbacks can give us an idea where we should work.
As I was saying, feedback is a positive thing. And even if people give us objective criticism we should accept that. The barrier should not be there when we are talking about feedback. Because it truly can lead us to develop ourselves.
But it's true we should not self harm by accepting feedback. Developing strong self-esteem can help us accept more feedback.
I agree, feedback is necessary and in many cases positive, it helps to maintain motivation and go in search of improvement.