Hello dear friends, receive greetings and many blessings to all of you, this time I want to share with you this post about the violence of children tempana confused by parents in a respectful education.
Each child in its growth process is developing processes in their behavior that in some cases are also the product of bad teachings demonstrated, that is, it is what can be evidenced by the parents.
Allowing children to hit their parents from a very early age is sometimes confused with a respectful education and undoubtedly it is, this action is lodged in the brain of children and will be included in the strategy of how to treat their environment, therefore, it will be one of the repertoire for their emotional world.
This brings as a consequence to be permissive parents and will bring more difficulties as the child grows, since he will think that he can do anything that comes to mind because there are no limits, no rules and no agreements, which translates into an absolute absence of authority.
We must make it very clear to the child that this behavior is very disrespectful to parents and their environment, therefore, must correct it and not contribute us to want to reprimand him in the same way, since violence generates more violence and we would be validating the assumed behavior of violence when he wants something and does not get it quickly and gets angry.
Then we must accompany the children in their annoyance and help them to transmit it verbally without hitting, knowing in the first place that every child at some point has impulses to hit in the middle of a rage.
Therefore, if the child is very young and still cannot speak and when he gets upset he wants to hit us, the most correct way is to hold his hands tightly and not allow him to do it and tell him firmly that he cannot hit, so that he knows that he should not do it.
Now, if the child is a little older and understands things better, we can help him by instructing him that he can channel his anger through shouting in a single area, as well as to stay away for a certain time until the pressure goes down.
It should be noted that the best thing is to be able to teach children to a world without violence and where respect for others, interest in helping others, responsibility and cooperation are superlative qualities to improve the world and do it over violence.
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Parents must set clear boundaries and teach children healthy ways to express anger without resorting to violence. Consistent discipline and positive reinforcement can help shape respectful behavior and prevent the normalization of hitting.
Thanks for sharing
hello @g2comfort it is very true your appreciation, we must set an example with our actions and always transmit respect and be conditional with others, always leaving aside the violence.