However, several European countries (such as France or the United Kingdom) and most Ibero-American countries, adopted the American date, which is why they currently celebrate Father's Day on the third Sunday of June, and on Sunday, June 19 it is celebrated in Venezuela is Father's Day, and many people speak or celebrate Mother's Day with more enthusiasm, but certainly Father's Day is also a courageous day as well as that of mothers since there are virtuous fathers worthy of imitation and in a general sense parents are responsible for perfecting the character of our children and preparing them for the future. We achieve this when we inspire confidence a sense of belonging, security and help them to build their life project, but to achieve all of the above a couple must function a man and a woman as God created it to be united in marriage and procreate children a couple, man and woman as God created him to be united in marriage and procreate children as a family.
The father figure is very important in raising children with the mother because when the parents are separated the children who suffer the most are because they need both
The most beautiful thing in life that a man can receive is the gift of being a father, because taking his son for the first time in his arms is a great honor and a privilege that some do not have.
However, it must be remembered that a father present or absent is decisive in the lives of the children for better or for worse.
When parents are distant, absent-minded and aggressive and assume a simple position of authority with their children, they will struggle with complexes, insecurities, and fears. If we have been like this, we still have time to change, everything begins with the humble attitude of recognizing that we must change. For this reason, every day we must ask ourselves if we are inspired or hurting the lives of our children.
If you are a dad, this reflection is for you _ children are susceptible, loving, innocent, clean of heart ... that's how they are born pure and beautiful but as they grow up they learn what mom and dad instill in them, no child is born selfish , disrespectful, nor hating they are pure and chaste and they are born with the purpose of being happy and that their parents polish their character and prepare them for the future, how will it be done? How will it be achieved?
1.- The first thing that must be done is to inspire confidence in the children and the father is an example to follow to increase this principle of life that is of utmost importance to promote their future, an important ingredient for a successful and happy life.
In the first years of life, there is the key to building trust in your child, precisely the one that will help him to function in life if you are willing to have strong and secure children.
The father has the obligation to successfully develop this quality in the lives of the children so that in the future they can walk with security and purpose and thus firmly establish their goals.
2.- The sense of belonging
The sense of belonging or feeling of belonging is the subjective identification that an individual experiences with respect to a group, an organization or a community, where they feel comfortable, welcome and / or accepted, that is, where they feel they belong. The sense of belonging is a fundamental element in the constitution of human communities.
In this sense, the father also has the responsibility of fostering the sense of belonging in the children so that they can feel identified, accepted and comfortable with the surrounding world where they feel that they belong and thus will be influencing them to build a healthy or healthy socialization among groups and friends
It is important to highlight that the sense of belonging in the family environment is extremely important to adequately form the interest of the children in the total integration of the family nucleus, since according to this sense of belonging their self-esteem will be more solid.
Children should feel safe in their environment and it is the parents who are responsible for fostering it, because in this way the Shijos are taught to build their life project
Remember that a well-built home teaches values and principles to children and helps them build their life project for the future because an insecure child will never be able to achieve or firmly build any objective
God gives a formidable and wonderful meaning to the children and the family God has in high esteem in this sense the father is the main head of the family
Dad, children are the inheritance that the Lord gives us; the fruits of the womb are the reward that comes from God. The children of a young man are like arrows in the hands of a warrior. How lucky is the man who fills his quiver with arrows like that!
Psalm 127: 3-5 (PDT)
Dad today, which is your special day, I want to congratulate you for celebrating this gift and responsibility that God has given you, not forgetting to remind you that being a father is an obligation every day, it builds the life of your child with security, a sense of belonging, respect, trust ... and thus you will be leaving a good legacy worth imitating
Remember that you are the main agent to polish the character of your children
¡ HAPPY FATHER'S DAY. CONGRATULATIONS!
Consulted bibliography: Sixto Porras, focusing on the family. Wikipedia
