I couldn't agree more -
I try not to fixate too much on my dislike of the 'positivity brigade' who try to find the good in everything, but I do have this theory that if that kind of thing becomes more common it'll eventually lead to more conflict, as everyone's just covering up the shit and not dealing with it.
Get it out in the open now and let it burn I say.
Indeed, get things out and see if they are based in reality.