I haven't heard of any of those guys. My favorite is CGA (Coach Greg Adams) and Darius M. They crack me up. 🤣🤪🤣
CGA has been right on so many things and ahead of the curve that it actually worries me because of him foretelling about the monetized sexual market place. I know his prediction to be true and it frightens me.
We have been seeing it for a long time and guys are adjusting their game or dropping out all together.
Most guys feel that they just have to go the pay to play route out the gates. The thing that I don't like about CGA is that he fully acts like the best route is just to pay for it at this point because you are going to pay so much with your time. I get what he is saying but for myself I feel like for several reasons I'm higher on the pecking order with woman than CGA is.
That being said it's a lot of work but I have been pulling off some Ws in 2025 which is nearly a miracle. Tomorrow I'm going to the stone quarry with a chick I have been hanging out with. Well I guess today. Lol
I should be asleep but crypto never sleeps so here we are. 👽
CGA didn't really make up all that info.
He was the kinda guy that got attention when younger, and got married, and got ran over.
And then, sees the evils inherit in wimminz, when he coaches little league, and the mothers hit on him.
Free Agent Lifestyle
But, he has always been good at putting the pieces together and talking about them.
There is a huge problem with pay-2-play. Most men want a woman who is theirs. Some play it down as male-mother-need, but that isn't the whole of it. It is more about having someone to share your life with. However, most women have been trained out of being what a husband needs. They don't give him sex, after denying him everything else he needs.
The bond is what most men want. Not sex-4-$.
This is why you see the hottest market being OnlyFans. Someone who pretends to care, and remember them.
Similarly, many men have gone to sex dolls. And have formed bonds with them. Every bit as real and intimate as a fleshie. Of course it is all in their heads, but as TFM says, its all chemicals, and the dolls give it to them.
Women had better work this out, and quick. Because their future is choosing a tribe to belong to, and their babies will belong to the tribe. They are free to leave, but not with the tribe's children.
I do agree that CGA was organically having success and now in his full blown Free Agent days he is realizing that the friction was so great and even driving around in the Porsche and being jacked and having some swag and a mouth piece wasn't really enough for the legit 8s and 9s here in the United States.
I have a friend from Finland and he was telling me over 10 years ago that in Japan if the girls want a new pair of jeans they will just sleep with a guy for money so they can buy new clothes and I was like WHAT???? Like regular girls do that? You are thinking that would be street hooker type chicks. He was saying regular girls were doing that and he was saying how the culture is really messed up.
It wasn't until recently that I realized in a lot of respects we are 8 years behind Japan but I almost feel like in that premise of the "regular girls" sleeping with guys for money we have basically caught up.
Now could the pendulum swing back the other way? YEAH but I feel like we have a long way to fall and the men are falling as well. I see these bombed out Midwest towns that lost the manufacturing so it isn't like most guys can level themselves way up beyond overcoming a chick's orbit of a dozen guys providing different things.
I agree with you on the Pay 2 Play stuff. I have never exchanged cash money to a chick for sex and if she isn't willing to do something that doesn't really cost anything I keep it moving. Now some would say my approach is too extreme and I have seen guys that have similar attributes to me end up spending a couple thousand dollars on a chick to never actually get with her and have her ultimately ghost them.
You have to work backwards because these guys paying out the ass typically aren't getting good results. The dynamic gets off and it's like..... man what are they paying for?
I have observed a lot of the younger guys and very rarely can they sustain traction or get with the same women I'm getting with. They are sort of in the same boat I was in at that age. My game wasn't fully formed and I didn't have an abundance mindset and I wasn't willing to walk away type of a thing. Also I couldn't work enough volume then but that's a double edged sword.
I personally think the financial condition of the country and the quality of women will get worse over the next 10 to 20 years here before things would get bad enough to where women would feel that the path of least resistance was to link up with one guy. Right now they can extract so much out of an orbit of guys and not have to live with any of them. The simps aren't going to fully disappear. They have no other play so they become these remote eSimps. It's sad.
How would you program / sell an app that matches homesteader guys with women (have to be fertile) who want that lifestyle?
You know, a lifestyle where you do not have to worry about food, away from the city hustle…
Right now, it would be a hard sale, but it might actually be something that works.
Soon, a lot of people will be looking for such.
And a little bit longer, we will have all the women saying "pick me", just knowing that they will get fed, they will do anything.
So, do you think this app could work?
I have thought about this type of thing quite a bit. Usually when you reduce the pool size that in itself backfires even more because it never reaches critical mass. Like the Christian Mingle, Farmers Only plays. It just gets too niche and even on stuff like Bumble, Hinge, and Tinder you have women acting like every guy is a complete joke.
So reducing the pool down further rarely works for the dating market or for things like social media in my opinion.
The dating app era is essentially over for the most part. It will still be around but I don't see it returning to it's Golden Era. I feel the same about Multi Level Marketing. It had a bad rep and then enough time passed that a new generation took a chance with it and then those companies got too ballzy and the government tightened the noose on them so I think their run is somewhat over in the format they were operating under.
We have to consider the real possibility that at some point things change and the pendulum swings back from crypto back to precious metals. I think it will be in result of quantum computer attacks but we have to consider that possibly.
Going back to the dating related stuff. I just think all this was on hard mode to some respects in the United States and to have better traction we would unfortunately have to go half the world away.
I've been a lucky man in a lot of sense but I have also had to put in an enormous amount of effort.
Of course, when you say it that way, it makes complete sense.
Unless we do something radical, like hooking up women with rich and influential men and all they have to do is pass some minor qualifications and where a red robe. Then the women would line up around the block.
I follow some of these passport bros and also I have several friends that have played baseball internationally in countries that I haven't actually been to so we have boots / cleats on the ground in my network. Relaying back info.
I think in general if a guy isn't have a certain amount of success here it isn't going to be automatic organic success in these various countries.
That being said the cold countries become an issue outside of summer. The women are way more active during the summer months so if someone was going to target a particular place it would have to be where there is an over abundance of attractive women relative to the guys and where it is somewhat warm if it isn't warm someone would almost have to extract one of those women and take her somewhere warm like Bali.
It's a big ordeal and it would all be tough to pull off. I know that I have somewhat been ruined because overtime I started having more and more success and I went other places and found out I had an elevated experience there. Like in Ontario. It was sad because most of those women were ruined by the vaccine and ultimately there the same issues will occur eventually with divorces and all that.
I just think a place like Poland is a better target for someone like myself because there are way more women than men over there currently and my architype has solid traction with the women of that architype because it's a like kind scenario.
It's not an easy thing to figure out. We are in somewhat uncharted territory with this tech and the level of attention women can receive now.
The unfortunate thing is it can leave a man thinking he is never good enough. All that being said I understand I have to be better to actually get what I want at this point. Insane to think but that is the reality of the situation.
I hate that, the average man, gets nothing from women except heartache and a drained wallet.
When the average woman should be thankful she gets anything, because she gives nothing.
About the woman issue, i have turned my attention away from there.
And towards building a place where i can survive and thrive in the upcoming turmoil.
I am setting myself up to be able to raise many children… who have no parents. I see this happening, and it doesn't waver. (while many things waver on like, what will Trump actually do, Will IsReal? use nukes?, when is the dollar going to finally croak? When/where are those god candles?)
So, if the universe provides me with a sweetheart, i will be thankful. And if not, oh well.
And i doubt i will get married, because then the state wouldn't exist, so what is marriage?