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¡Hola queridas Damas de Hive! Espero que se encuentren muy bien. Hoy me paso por acá para participar de las preguntas de la semana de la mano de @amberkashif, con temas muy interesantes para tratar. En esta ocasión me centraré en la primera.
Las personas suelen sentirse fascinadas por ciertos rasgos de personalidad, estilos o hábitos de los demás y se sienten inspiradas a adoptarlos. Sin embargo, a pesar de su admiración, puede resultarles difícil incorporarlos a sus propias vidas. ¿Hay algún rasgo o hábito en particular que te parezca particularmente admirable? ¿Qué te cautiva de estos rasgos y por qué te gustaría adoptarlos? ¿Alguna vez te has esforzado por adoptarlos? De ser así, ¿qué desafíos encontraste?
Bueno, los que me siguen o leen mis publicaciones saben que amo leer. Y, últimamente, me encuentro algo fascinada por las personas que hacen suyos los libros que leen, en el sentido de marcar frases que les gustan, dibujar las páginas con corazones o algo del estilo, se siente como ponerles un poco de vos. Los estoy viendo y me encantan cómo quedan, luego veo los míos tan vacíos, que ni siquiera les puedo poner post-it porque siento que los arruinó. Ni siquiera puedo marcarlos con lápiz y siento que sería muy útil hacerlo porque a veces quisiera volver a una frase que leí y no la encuentro, tendría que leer todo el libro para lograr encontrarla de nuevo. Hay algo mágico en colocarle algo tuyo a un libro que amaste y sabes que nunca podrías deshacerte de él, pero en el fondo soy conservadora y tengo bastante miedo de que no queden bien, mandármela y luego no poder deshacerlo, con lo caro que están los libros prefiero no arriesgarme a que salga mal. Me gusta cómo quedan, pero no creo ser capaz de hacerlo alguna vez. Así que no, me lo planteo, pero no lo intento jajaja. Me tengo que permitir ser más flexible conmigo.
En la misma línea, me encantaría tener el hábito de poder leer en cualquier lugar, hay mucha gente que aprovecha los tiempos muertos para ponerse al día con sus lecturas. Antes lo hacía mucho en los viajes o lugares de espera, ahora no sé porqué motivo me cuesta un poco esto. Como que no me puedo concentrar bien si no estoy leyendo en mi casa. Esto es raro porque era algo que solía hacer bastante, pero ahora no lo estoy pudiendo lograr. Por lo que es un hábito que tenía y lo perdí, lo tengo que encontrar de nuevo, ya que es muy útil adelantar lecturas y de paso se te va el tiempo más rápido y no estoy concentrada pensando pavadas que luego me afecten. A lo mejor estoy manejando mucha ansiedad y eso hace que no me pueda concentrar tanto con otros ruidos y gente alrededor.
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Como verán, en esta ocasión no me centré en algún rasgo personal de las personas, creo que tengo muchos buenos rasgos en mi personalidad. Quizá me falta un poco de espontaneidad, ser espontánea me vendría muy bien, a veces espero demasiado un momento preciso para realizar algo y no, estaría bueno solo hacerlo porque salió en el momento sin tener que estar pensándolo demasiado. Así que este es un rasgo que admiro de las otras personas y que me encantaría poder tener. Si no le estoy dando 80 vueltas a un asunto no sería yo. Así que me encantaría poder ser más espontanea en la vida, ojalá sea un habito que pueda aprender porque no me sale hacerlo, en contadas ocasiones fui espontanea y la verdad es que lo disfrute mucho.
Bueno amigos, hasta acá mi participación al concurso semanal, espero que les haya gustado y los invitó a todos los que me lean a participar.
Gracias por llegar hasta acá y apoyar mi contenido.
¡Hasta la próxima!
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Hello dear Ladies of Hive! I hope you are feeling great. Today I'm stopping by to participate in @amberkashif's questions of the week, with very interesting topics to discuss. This time I will focus on the first one.
People are often fascinated by certain personality traits, styles, or habits of others and feel inspired to adopt them. However, despite their admiration, they may find it challenging to incorporate these traits into their own lives. Are there any specific traits or habits you find particularly admirable? What about these traits captivates you, and why would you like to adopt them? Have you ever made an effort to embrace them, and if so, what challenges did you encounter?
Well, those of you who follow me or read my posts know that I love to read. And, lately, I find myself a bit fascinated by people who make the books they read their own, in the sense of marking phrases they like, drawing hearts on the pages or something like that, it feels like putting a little bit of you in them. I'm looking at them and I love how they look, then I see mine so empty, I can't even put post-it notes on them because I feel like I've ruined them. I can't even mark them with a pencil and I feel it would be very useful to do that because sometimes I would like to go back to a sentence I read and I can't find it, I would have to read the whole book to find it again. There is something magical about putting something of yours on a book you loved and you know you could never get rid of it, but deep down I'm conservative and I'm quite afraid of not getting it right, sending it to me and then not being able to undo it, with how expensive books are I'd rather not risk it going wrong. I like the way they look, but I don't think I'll ever be able to do it. So no, I think about it, but I don't try hahaha. I have to allow myself to be more flexible with me.
In the same vein, I would love to have the habit of being able to read anywhere, there are many people who take advantage of downtime to catch up on their reading. I used to do it a lot on trips or waiting places, now I don't know why I find this a bit difficult. Like I can't concentrate well if I'm not reading at home. This is weird because it used to be something I used to do a lot, but now I'm not being able to do it. So it's a habit I used to have and I lost it, I have to find it again, because it's very useful to read ahead and in the meantime the time goes faster and I'm not concentrated thinking nonsense that will affect me later. Maybe I'm handling a lot of anxiety and that makes me not to concentrate so much with other noises and people around.
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As you will see, this time I did not focus on some personal trait of people, I think I have many good traits in my personality. Maybe I lack a bit of spontaneity, being spontaneous would do me a lot of good, sometimes I wait too long for a precise moment to do something and no, it would be nice to just do it because it came out in the moment without having to think about it too much. So this is a trait that I admire in other people and that I would love to have. If I'm not giving 80 thought to an issue I wouldn't be me. So I would love to be more spontaneous in life, hopefully it is a habit that I can learn because I can't do it, in a few occasions I was spontaneous and the truth is that I enjoyed it a lot.
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spontaneity is also a very good traits to admire... because always trying to be perfect and precise can be a problem in getting things done.
Yes, those of us who don't have it admire it greatly. It's a very useful trait. Thanks for stopping by!
How good that you have been able to enjoy those traits of spontaneity on occasions, that reflects as you say, your authentic personality, I'm sure you will learn it as a habit if you dare to do it friend, I hope all goes well with the anxiety issue, a big hug,
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Yes, it's a matter of internalizing it. It's a necessary trait sometimes. Thank you so much for your visit, friend. Hugs!
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Thank you for the support, ladies!
Oh someone is telling me about me. I understand how counter productive this habit it. But we feel helpless. May God help us.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
It's nice to feel supported in my feelings, haha, thanks. Have a good night, cheers!
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Thank you!