Is good that you see things for what they should be and not what just society wants us to see.
I think anyone either the wife or the husband should not have a problem playing any role as long as they are in the position to do so and it is for benefit of the family.
I thought my brothers, how to care for the house, cook and care for themselves, I told them that, thing we were meant to believe when we were little was not right. Just because I'm a lady does not give them the right to seat while I do all the house chores.