A good analogy can be found in video games where you can choose the character you want to play as. A popular example would be the difference between Mario and Luigi in Nintendo games, Mario may be stronger and yet Luigi can jump higher and faster.
People can talk all day of the differences between the genders, ethnicity (race or color), religion, politics, geography, age, size, height, weight, preferences, fashion, styles, etc, etc, etc, and looking at the differences between characters found in video games, movies, films, TV shows, books, stories, comics, cartoons, anime, etc, are particularly vivid in illustrating strengths and weaknesses between say a snake and an elephant for example. I love women. But I also see the value in men. And it should be common sense for people. Like, an ear cannot see and eyes cannot hear. Likewise, men and women are not always the same. Sure, humans all have many similarities and there are exceptions to the rule.
But generalities can be studied.
A generality does not mean that some women cannot be stronger than some men. Yeah, of course, some women are stronger than some men. But on average, the statistics show otherwise, that is how science works. People should be taught how science and statistics work. They help us see the probability of what might happen. Not to say it will happen as exceptions do exist. Women can do some things better than men. But normally, women make different choices. Some women can choose to be like men.
They can do what they want.
But historically, most women in the past chose to do what most women typically do. And that is how things have been. If a girl wants to be a lesbian, I don't care. If a woman wants to be a man, I don't care. Because that is life and we have the freedom to do what we want to do. But most women choose to be women. That has been the case for thousands of years around the world.