If You Could Get a Second Chance at Something, What Would It Be?
If life ever gave me a second chance, I know exactly the moment I would return to.
In my mid-20s, I had a young man who had his eyes on me. As time went on, we became good friends and eventually started dating. He truly wanted to marry me, but I turned him down. Not because he wronged me in any way, but simply because he was from another state and we didn’t speak the same language. I was too focused on how we would communicate in English instead of paying attention to his good qualities.
Along the line, another guy who spoke my language approached me. All of us lived in the same city, including the man who wanted to marry me. And because we shared the same language, I chose the second person over the one who genuinely loved me.
Guess what happened next?:-
Just two months into the relationship, the second person began to misbehave. He lied, he drank, and we constantly argued and fought over the smallest misunderstandings. In the end, I lost the first man, and I didn’t marry the second one either.
Looking back, I realized that I focused too much on outward appearance and language instead of character, respect, and the love shown to me.
Even without a second chance, I have learned from my mistakes. That experience shaped the way I see things today. It taught me that humans can be unpredictable, so it’s wise to know someone’s inner character, not just the surface. It also helped me make better decisions when choosing friends and a future partner.
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Wow! That’s intense. As young people, we sometimes tend to focus on unnecessary aspects that the necessary. It’s a good thing, you can now differentiate whats important and what’s not.
Exactly. Life is teacher
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STOPDon't live life with regrets. You've learned from these encounters and moving forward as you are is best. When it's time for your marriage partner to come, he will. You will know.
Thanks for sharing and have a lovely day!
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