Blessings and greetings to all who make life in this beautiful community of ladies, happy and grateful to be here, in this way I give my entry both for this week's contest, as well as to deliver my first publication here.
Bendiciones y saludos para todos los que hacen vida en esta hermosa comunidad de damas, contenta y agradecida de estar aquí, de esta manera doy mi entrada tanto para el concurso de esta semana, como también para entregarles mi primera publicación aquí.
It is honestly the first time that I take the initiative to create content in this way, because until now I have only made videos (specifically in the area of music "singing") but I feel that many times expanding, going beyond our comfort zone it helps us to grow, mature and learn both from others and from our own capacity for new things, I am passionate about having the opportunity for other people to know my thoughts or ways of seeing life, we are always varied in terms of ideals, and it's interesting that in many cases we can identify with others, it's actually the main reason why I started writing.
Honestamente es la primera vez que tomo la iniciativa de crear contenido de esta manera, pues hasta el momento solo he realizado videos(específicamente en el área de música “cantando”) pero siento que muchas veces expandirse, ir mas allá de nuestra zona de confort nos ayuda a crecer, madurar y aprender tanto de otros como de nuestra propia capacidad para cosas nuevas, me apasiona la idea de tener la oportunidad que otras personas conozcan mis pensamientos o formas de ver la vida, siempre somos variados en cuanto a ideales, y es interesante que en muchos casos podamos identificarnos con los demás, en realidad es la mayor razón por la que comencé a escribir.
Now, to begin the topic that brought us here, in life we go through many ups and downs, personally despite my young age, I have been at the bottom very, very low in many situations, mostly for decisions that I have made, that at the right moment I did not imagine that it would end badly, I have a strong character yes, it was not so easy for me to have to listen to other people's opinions about my life, even though I have been learning sometimes it costs a bit being able to please everyone and getting others to understand why we make or make certain decisions.
Ahora bien, para dar comienzo al tema que nos trajo hasta aquí, en la vida pasamos por muchas altas y bajas, en lo personal a pesar de mi corta edad, he estado en el fondo muy, muy debajo en muchas situaciones, en su mayoría por decisiones que he tomado, que en el momento preciso no imagine que terminaría mal, soy de carácter fuerte sí, no se me daba tan fácil tener que escuchar opiniones sobre mi vida de otras personas, incluso aunque he ido aprendiendo a veces cuesta un poco poder complacer a todos y lograr que los demás entiendan el motivo por el cual hacemos o tomamos ciertas decisiónes.
Question that can cover most of my stages in life, from my point of view, as I said before, it has cost me a lot to detach myself from that hard way of not accepting certain things that others want to tell me, many times they will say that it is for my “good ” but honestly many of us know when someone does not come with the best intentions, and that is where the other side of the coin is, I could say that the first person who is in that constant role of expressing their corrections, calls for attention and opinions From her point of view, she is my mother, knowing that it is for my good, because who better than her to guide me in life, a great woman with strong character and a big heart, but often abrupt to say words that can even hurt, has cost but I learned and more than anything now that I am in the waiting stage to have my daughter, accept that when mom says something she is right, before she was rebellious and I did not see it that way, now with everything I have lived with my em Barazo I understand and value much more everything he has said to me and that no word said to me has ever been in vain. Your corrections are treasures for my growth and a guide to have tools now that I will be a mom.
Pregunta que puede abarcar una mayoría de mis etapas en la vida, desde mi punto de vista como dije anteriormente me ha costado bastante desligarme de esa forma dura de no aceptar ciertas cosas que otros me quieran decir, muchas veces dirán que es por mi “bien” pero sinceramente muchos de nosotros sabemos cuándo alguien no viene con las mejores intenciones, y allí es donde está la otra cara de la moneda, podría decir que la primera persona que está en ese papel constante de expresarme sus correcciones, llamados de atención y opiniones desde su punto de vista es mi mama sabiendo que es por mi bien, pues quien mejor que ella para guiarme en la vida, una gran mujer fuerte en carácter y con gran corazón pero muchas veces brusca para decir palabras que hasta pueden herir, me ha costado pero aprendí y más que todo ahora que estoy en la etapa de espera para tener a mi hija, aceptar que mama cuando dice algo tiene razón, antes era rebelde y no lo veía así, ahora con todo lo he vivido con mi embarazo entiendo y valoro mucho mas todo lo que me ha dicho y que nunca ninguna palabra dicha para mí ha sido en vano. Sus correcciones son tesoros para mi crecimiento y una guía para tener herramientas ahora que seré mama.
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On the other hand, if there are people who have come with bad intentions and often with imposition, what do I do in these cases? Before I used to explode if necessary, nowadays I understand to differentiate between one thing and another and I know that it is better with respect depending on the person, *Thank you for the suggestion (although it is not necessarily good) but still show temperance, in the end I think faithfully that many times criticism is hard to bear but knowing how to fall, get up and continue, that's what it's all about. I still have people who tell me, why do I do this or that? If that's not how it should be and I just have to say, well, even if my criteria fail later on, I've learned to discard the bad and absorb the good, what we do will never make everyone happy, but those who really value and see in you effort to deal with all the things of this life are the ones that really deserve to have weight of opinion in our daily walk, not everyone wants the good of others, but I always believe in God and trust that he will guide me along the best path, and will put the right people who help us throughout it, those who don't are also a learning to know when to add that opinion and when not.
Por otro lado, si existen personas que han venido con mala intención y muchas veces con imposición, ¿Qué hago en estos casos? Antes explotaba si era necesario, hoy en día entiendo a diferenciar entre una cosa y otra y sé que es mejor con respeto dependiendo de la persona, *Agradecer por la sugerencia (aunque no sea necesariamente buena) pero aun así mostrar templanza, al final creo fielmente que muchas veces las críticas son duras de llevar pero saber caer, levantarse y continuar, de eso se trata. Todavía tengo personas que me dicen, que ¿Por qué hago esto, o aquello? Si así no debe ser y yo solo tengo para decir, pues que aunque mi criterio falle más delante yo he aprendido a desechar lo malo y absorber lo bueno, nunca lo que hagamos hará felices a todos, pero los que realmente valoran y ven en ti esfuerzo para lidiar con todas las cosas de esta vida son los que realmente merecen tener peso de opinión en nuestro diario andar, no cualquiera quiere el bien ajeno, pero yo siempre creyendo en Dios y confiando que él me guiara por el mejor camino, y pondrá las personas correctas que nos ayudan a lo largo de él, las que no también son un aprendizaje para saber cuándo si hay que sumar esa opinión y cuando no.
This question is difficult to answer, mainly due to the fact that my concept of entertainment may differ a little from that of others, I greatly love being at home, working and, above all, being with my family, my way of having fun will always be mostly in that sense, I can travel, go out to meetings but always with the family, in good company with my friends who, in the end, go by over the years and we can see that the amount varies, for reasons beyond my control, whether it is changing homes , personal life, etc
Esta pregunta si es difícil de contestar más que todo por el hecho que mi concepto de diversión tal vez difiere un poco del de otros, yo amo en gran manera estar en casa, trabajar y sobre todo estar en familia, mi manera de diversión siempre será en mayor parte entorno en ese sentido, puedo viajar, salir a reuniones pero siempre en familia, en buena compañía con mis amigos que al final van pasando los años y podemos ver que la cantidad va variando, por motivos ajenos, ya sea cambio de viviendas, vida personal, etc.
Now in my new stage preparing to be a mom, I don't have much time to go out and do things other than worry about the arrival of my baby, but always in extra time outside of that I prefer to be at home, at church or if I go out somewhere to always share with the family, I am from home, of good genuine sincere company, more than other things, that if it is valid and how much fun but personal preference I like those things more.
Ahora en mi nueva etapa preparándome para ser mama, no tengo mucho tiempo para salir hacer cosas más que preocuparme para la llegada de mi bebe, pero siempre en tiempo extra fuera de eso prefiero estar en casa, en la iglesia o si saldré algún lugar sea a compartir siempre en familia, soy de hogar, de buena compañía sincera genuina, más que de otras cosas, que si es válido y cuanta como diversión pero a preferencia personal me gustan más esas cosas.
Thank you all for coming this far taking the valuable time to read, I take this opportunity to invite @Luzha to join this beautiful community, I thank you in advance for your comments, they will always be well received, Blessings and greetings.
Gracias a todos por llegar hasta aquí tomarse el tiempo valioso de leer, aprovecho para invitar a @Luzha a que se una a esta bella comunidad, doy gracias de antemano por sus comentarios siempre serán bien recibidos, Bendiciones y saludos.
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Todo el contenido y las imágenes son hechos por mí, excepto una que utilice al comienzo del post de Pixabay. Y es resto gracias a la aplicación gratuita Canva. Espero sea de su agrado.
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thank you very much for the welcome, I will have very present all the advice and the help provided since I am just beginning and my desire is to continue learning, blessings
It's good to read that you realized your mom meant great and for sure you will be a great mom to your child too :)
I agree, we feel and know who really cares from those who just want to pinpoint things without any reason. Corrections or criticisms are good when they are for our betterment :)
We have different ways of having fun in life and it doesn't have to be going out :) I also enjoy being at home, doing the things I love and that's fun for me. Thank you so much for sharing your story and I wish you the best as you prepare for your Motherhood journey :)
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Thank you very much for your words, I will keep them very present as well, I really appreciate the time for coming here and reading, blessings and greetings, a great pleasure
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muchas gracias por todo, aprecio mucho el recibimiento la manera en la llevan esta bella comunidad, me interesa seguir participando, aprendiendo y creciendo con ustedes, bendiciones. aunque no entiendo bien eso de los tokens y lei la informacion pero no se como manejarlo