I have been contemplating the dynamics of relationships for a while.
In every relationship, the parties involved have designated roles. Whether it be between parents and children, husband and wife, employer and employee, mentor and mentee, each relationship thrives on the understanding and fulfillment of these roles.
I've observed a trend: problems in these relationships often arise when one party encroaches on the role of the other or fails to fulfill their own role effectively.
For instance, an employer will inevitably have issues with an employee who doesn't perform the expected duties or attempts to usurp the authority of the boss.
In marriage, women are traditionally expected to submit to their husbands, and men are expected to love their wives. So, what happens when a woman decides not to play her role, or when a man fails to love his wife while she fulfills her role? Conflicts will arise.
The same applies to the relationship between parents and their children.
I believe that for relationships to thrive, the parties involved need to first be aware of what's expected of them and strive to meet these expectations. Even if issues arise due to our human nature, they can be more easily resolved with a clear understanding of our roles.
So, in any relationship you find yourself in, seek to know your role and play it well.
Yes, the root often falls on unfulfilled expectations.
Every relationship needs a regular maintenance and tune up or it will fail.
What many people do not understand is that the one putting in the work also have a choice not to do it but still do it anyways because of a simple understanding, and so why not compromise as well? Both parties have to put in the work to make it a success and I hope that many people get to understand this and apply it to their various relationships (whatever relationship it may be) Thank you sooo much @kerrislravenhill , hugs....
Right, in all type of relationships,.everyone should played the role, not just one!
Exactly, not just one sided because alot of people have issues due to that and I hope many people get to understand this. Thank you so much @lhes , hugs...
In today’s world, it’s so common to find people dodging responsibility or fighting for power where they are not needed. Always seen in the home than anywhere. Relationships will work only when both parties fulfill their roles
It is so true that some people won't put in work but expects good results haha, I just hope that many people will know this and have peace in their relationships (whatever relationship it may be) Thank you do much @deraaa , hugs...
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