Greetings everyone, happy start to the week with all the good things it has to offer, and let's see the best in everything around us. This week's questions are important, so I decided to share my perspective on both options.
1️⃣ What do you consider to be
the most important lessons
we should teach our children?
Education is a vital tool for every human being. When we decide to become mothers, we become so engrossed in our role as protectors that we sometimes forget the values they need as they grow older, join groups, and socialize.
Home education is extremely important; it's where values begin. This education comes directly from parents, or from mothers if they are raising their children alone, whether by choice or due to circumstances. This home education, being the fundamental, organic pillar, without many filters, includes values, habits, and even the culture in which they will grow up.
It's a delicate subject because everyone, according to their belief system, will guide their children's development. What's a priority for some families is secondary for others. In my case, the most important things have always been values like respect, honesty, sincerity, and discipline—they're fundamental. Although, with honesty, you later learn things that, thank God, didn't escalate.
Of course, as they grow, the importance of each learned value can change; we shouldn't be surprised. This depends on the environment they choose to be raised in, the friends they make, and other factors.
For me, respect is fundamental, not only for parents and family, but also for nature and everything around them. Today, my children thank me for the upbringing they received at home before facing the world and having to fend for themselves. They've maintained these principles, and that's truly admirable. Wherever they are, they receive their parents' blessings at every moment.
2️⃣ Do you consider failure less, equally,
or more important than success in life?
Why?
There are many theories about success and failure that should be carefully reviewed before making decisions. It's important to understand that success isn't just about money; there are other elements that contribute to success that aren't necessarily material.
Based on my life experiences and the personal, professional, and social experiences I've had, failure should be considered as a learning experience that helps us improve in our daily lives. We should never view it as failure, as the question suggests, but rather as lessons for improvement. It's about taking a different perspective and not letting criticism or judgment crush us. It's about lifting our spirits and, depending on the situation, controlling those survival instincts that often lead us to succumb.
It's a process to break free from the pattern of automatically labeling anything that doesn't go well as failure.
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Saludos a todos, feliz inicio de semana con todo lo bueno que hay en ella y veamos lo mejor en todo lo que nos rodea. Son importantes las preguntas de esta semana, por ello decidí dar mi punto de vista en las dos opciones.
1️⃣ ¿Cuáles consideras que son las lecciones
1️⃣ ¿Cuáles consideras que son las lecciones
más importantes
que debemos enseñar a nuestros hijos?
La educación es un arma importante para cada ser humano. Cuando decidimos ser madres nos envolvemos tanto en nuestro papel de proteger que a veces nos olvidamos de valores que ellos requieren en la medida en que van sumando edad, van sumándose a grupos, van socializando.
La educación de hogar es sumamente importante es la que da inicio a los valores, es educación que viene directamente de los padres o madres en caso que le toque sola porque así lo decidió o por cuestiones del destino. En esta educación de hogar siendo el pilar fundamental, orgánica, sin muchos filtros van incluidos los valores, hábitos, hasta la cultura donde va a ir creciendo.
Es un tema delicado porque cada quien de acuerdo a su sistema de creencias va a ir orientando, lo que para unos hogares es prioritario y para otros es de segunda clase. En mi caso, siempre lo más importante fue los valores como el respeto, la honestidad, la sinceridad, la disciplina, son fundamentales…aunque con la sinceridad después una se entera de cosas que gracias a Dios no pasaron a otros estadios.
Claro, en la medida que ellos crecen pueden ir variando la importancia de cada valor aprendido, no nos extrañemos…esto va en el medio que deciden formarse, los amigos que van eligiendo y otros elementos.
Para mí, el respeto es fundamental no solo a los padres y familiares, a la naturaleza, a lo que les rodea. Hoy día mis hijos me dan las gracias por la educación que recibieron en el hogar antes de enfrentarse al mundo y defenderse por si solos, que han mantenido los principios y eso es verdaderamente admirable y donde se encuentren reciben las bendiciones a cada momento de sus padres.
2️⃣ ¿Consideras que el fracaso es menos,
igual o más importante que el éxito en la vida?
¿Por qué?
Existen muchas teorías acerca del éxito y fracaso que debe ser bien revisada antes de tomar decisiones, entender que el éxito no solo es dinero que hay otros elementos que forman parte del este, que no necesariamente tienen que ser materiales.
El fracaso de acuerdo a lo que he avanzado en la vida y las experiencias que me ha tocado vivir en lo personal, profesional, social, debe considerado así como experiencias que vivimos para mejorar en nuestras vivencias diarias, nunca mirarlo como se expresa en la pregunta como fracaso sino como lecciones para mejorar…es dar otra mirada y no dejar que las críticas o juicios nos aplasten, levantar los ánimos, que depende de la situación sea manejable controlar esas emociones de supervivencia que por lo general caemos.
Es un proceso salir de ese patrón que cuando no sale algo bien es considerado fracaso.
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Hermosa iniciativa, comparto tu opinión ante las interrogantes de esta semana, todo debe iniciarse por educación en el hogar, el inculcar infinitos valores marca el sendero de los retoños que allí habitan.
Y ciertamente el fracaso es necesario para valorar todo lo que tenemos, es un crecimiento que nos impulsa hacer mejores.
Saludos.
Asi es
Gracias
Building our children's morals and education is extremely important! Even when we feel like at the time, they didn't receive all we wanted them to because, well, children will be children, even into young adulthood, I have found that they took the seed you were trying to plant, and it bloomed later on.
Failure can be hard, but it is a learning tool for sure; one to help us grow.
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Thank you for your response, it's very valuable.
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Thank you, thank you very much
As parents we really do shape the foundations of our children. It's a huge responsibility being a parent.
I was so happy that you mentioned the importance of respecting our environment, respecting nature.
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Yes, that's just as important as respecting people.
Thanks for the interaction.
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