I think I've gotten up to five invites to join this amazing contest, I had the plan to enter for it but kept forgetting somehow. So I'm thankful to those who have been inviting me to join, I'm finally doing so thanks to you all.
The two questions are interesting to write about but I'll be replying to the first and I want to thank the person who chose this week's questions @ifarmgirl they are really good ones especially the first as it got me reflecting on myself... I find self reflecting questions to be the best.
And now, my response to the first question...
Share what makes you angry, how long do you stay mad, and what or who can pacify you?
Anyone who knows me closely would agree with me that I hardly get angry, I actually don't know how to get angry because I forget that I'm angry sometimes and just become happy within a few minutes. If I get angry for long, then what happened isn't what I like at all and I find it hard to forgive even though I still forgive at last.
Little things don't get me angry easily. Like stepping on my toes, not letting me do what I have to do or sending me on errands when I want to do something else... I don't feel happy about these sometimes but they would hardly get me angry.
What gets me angry is when I know I'm right about something or someone and another keeps trying hard to prove me wrong even though it is obvious I'm right. No, I won't get so angry that I would raise my voice or want to hit anyone but my mood changes and that particular can't be the one to bring it back.
Another thing that can get me angry is having too much to do and I'm lazy or confused on where to start... I don't know if this count as something to be angry about but I really do get angry at myself when this happens. And the most annoying thing is, I won't find a way out as soon as I start feeling angry about it. Instead, those around me get to have a taste of my self anger 😅 I'll just start finding faults in every other thing.
I know this particular one isn't cool at all but I think the last time this happened, was a long time ago so I can say I'm outgrowing it.
What takes away my anger?
Like I said, I don't know how to stay angry for long so I always find ways to get rid of it once I know I'm angry. Who else thinks it's not easy to calm oneself down sometimes? But somehow, you have to and that is what I do.
I turn on my WhatsApp to view status of those I know would always shar funny stuffs, I hardly not laugh at jokes so that sends my anger away within minutes. And if it doesn't work, I'll watch a movie and if that doesn't work, I listen to music. If all that doesn't work, I start to sing and I sing a bit louder to let every other person know that I'm singing 😅
There are other ways I send my anger away but truth be told, I rarely get angry... I think it's one of my weakness 🥲 I hope it's cool.
Thanks to the community and I'll like to invite @iskafan to join in the Contest
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Creo que he recibido hasta cinco invitaciones para unirme a este increíble concurso, tenía el plan para participar pero se me olvidaba de alguna manera. Así que estoy agradecido con aquellos que me han estado invitando a unirme, finalmente lo estoy haciendo gracias a todos ustedes.
Es interesante escribir sobre las dos preguntas, pero responderé a la primera y quiero agradecer a la persona que eligió las preguntas de esta semana @ifarmgirl, son muy buenas, especialmente la primera, ya que me hizo reflexionar sobre mí misma... encuentre las preguntas auto-reflexivas para ser las mejores.
Y ahora, mi respuesta a la primera pregunta...
Comparte lo que te hace enojar, ¿cuánto tiempo permaneces enojado y qué o quién puede pacificarte?
Cualquiera que me conozca de cerca estaría de acuerdo conmigo en que apenas me enojo, en realidad no sé cómo enojarme porque a veces olvido que estoy enojado y me pongo feliz en unos minutos. Si me enfado por mucho tiempo, entonces lo que pasó no es lo que me gusta en absoluto y me resulta difícil perdonar aunque al final perdono.
Las cosas pequeñas no me enojan fácilmente. Como pisarme los dedos de los pies, no dejarme hacer lo que tengo que hacer o enviarme a hacer mandados cuando quiero hacer otra cosa... A veces no me siento feliz por esto, pero difícilmente me harían enojar.
Lo que me enfada es cuando sé que tengo razón sobre algo o alguien y otro se esfuerza por demostrar que estoy equivocado aunque sea obvio que tengo razón. No, no me enojaré tanto como para levantar la voz o querer golpear a alguien, pero mi estado de ánimo cambia y ese en particular no puede ser el que lo devuelva.
Otra cosa que me puede enojar es tener mucho que hacer y soy perezoso o confundido sobre por dónde empezar... No sé si esto cuenta como algo por lo que enojarme, pero realmente me enojo conmigo mismo cuando esto pasa. Y lo más molesto es que no encontraré una salida tan pronto como empiece a sentirme enojado por eso. En cambio, los que me rodean prueban mi propia ira 😅 Comenzaré a encontrar fallas en todas las demás cosas.
Sé que este en particular no es genial en absoluto, pero creo que la última vez que sucedió fue hace mucho tiempo, así que puedo decir que lo estoy superando.
¿Qué me quita la ira?
Como dije, no sé cómo mantenerme enojado por mucho tiempo, así que siempre encuentro formas de deshacerme de él una vez que sé que estoy enojado. ¿Quién más piensa que a veces no es fácil calmarse? Pero de alguna manera, tienes que hacerlo y eso es lo que hago.
Enciendo mi WhatsApp para ver el estado de aquellos que sé que siempre compartirán cosas divertidas, casi no me río de las bromas, así que eso disipa mi ira en cuestión de minutos. Y si no funciona, veo una película y si eso no funciona, escucho música. Si todo eso no funciona, empiezo a cantar y canto un poco más fuerte para que los demás sepan que estoy cantando 😅
Hay otras formas en que envío mi enojo, pero la verdad sea dicha, rara vez me enojo... Creo que es una de mis debilidades 🥲 Espero que sea genial.
Gracias a la comunidad y me gustaría invitar a @iskafan a unirse al Concurso </ div>
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It's really good that you don't get angry easily, and you basically know how to suppress it when it does rear it's ugly head, @merit.ahama;
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Hahaha you're so funny!
I was actually wondering where the model picture appeared in my post 😅 and it meant my own picture... I'm a model myself 🥰
Thanks so much for your kind words
You're very awesome for not getting angry so easily. I must say that's a great trait and personality :) And your way to pacify yourself when someone else steps on your limits is fantastic too. Laughter they say is the best medicine so it's good to laugh any nonsense away. And singing too!
Many thanks for sharing your story Merit. Stay awesome !LADY
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Hahaha laughter is a good one indeed, thanks for stopping by sweet Lady ❤️
It sure is :) Thank you too fab Lady :)
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I don't think I have ever seen you angry for ones, I will start taking notes of this little thing and see how the mood will change 🤣🤣
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You better not!
And if those tips doesn't work for you in suppressing the anger, my dear, just sleep. Life is too small to get angry over some things. We are just the same. 😂😂
I don't think I could get angry over mere issue. You will just see me smiling 🤣
Hahaha as in ehn... You know these things well 😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Please, I don't want to laugh o but you succeeded in making me show my rotten 32 tee....Ah! That was a mistake. I mean white 32 teeth to the world...
See person wey dey vex wey her face dey shine like street light.
If all these didn't work, just dial my number and inhale some laughing gas... 🤣... Free ticket for only you.
Abeg drop number... I like explore all I can when I'm angry 😂 even though say the anger nor dey last.
Glad made you laugh 😊
My anger depends on my mood. When I'm not in a good mood even the least actions are more than enough to get me angry 😡😡😡 hahaha
That you rarely get angry is an expensive treasure, I'm jealous 😄😄🤪
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Hahaha those anger emotion got me laughing 😅
Abeg try dey calm down o
I must say, you have the coolest weakness. Not getting angry is a gift. Not everyone has that. I get angry sometimes, and when i do, i try to excuse myself from the situation till tempers calm.
That's a good way to calm yourself but what happens when the situation insists on pestering your anger mood? 😅 Wahala don burst be that o
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Thanks, very much appreciated
"I turn on my WhatsApp to view status of those I know would always shar funny stuffs, I hardly not laugh at jokes so that sends my anger away within minutes. And if it doesn't work, I'll watch a movie and if that doesn't work, I listen to music. If all that doesn't work, I start to sing and I sing a bit louder to let every other person know that I'm singing"
Haha,😂 really weird ways to calm yourself down, me doing those stuffs make the anger increase, so funny even singing would make my head want to fall out, watching movie worst of all. Especially if it's the annoying type.. Itss good to know people like you still exist
Haha you must be a difficult one if those don't work on you 😬
Am sureee but talking about it works just fine for me
Yeah, that's a good one too
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Exactly my friend, thanks for your contribution ❤️