Nowadays, premarital sex is rampant among young people. What if you got pregnant, and encountered rude in-laws with a partner who is incapable of standing by himself or standing up for you? Would you rather endure their maltreatment, or walk out on your relationship and raise your child alone? Why?
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Hello ladies, how are you? This is a rather late entry because well, your girl has had a lot of school work and still personal life to deal with but yeah? Here's my OFFICIAL entry. You might want to check my other post on one of the contest questions which i did in the leofinance community
So, this particular question? I dreaded it. It looked like a controversial topic and i want no part of controversy. But yeah, i still have well, thoughts? We'll be dealing with a lot of imaginary scenarios here because as i understand that the question above is people's reality, i do not have the total capacity to speak on this because i cannot relate, i do not wish to relate and will not relate. t
The scenario question painted, is no situation nobody would want to be in. So, maybe we can start with sticking to the NO premarital sex? Because tha is where the disaster started. If SHE do not engage in premarital sex, then she wouldn't get pregnant and the others wouldn't happen. Date...date your partner and see what kind of person they are. But yes, in a situation where, it happens.
The scenario in the question happens? With a partner who does not defend you and rude inlaws, it can take a toll on one's mental heath and physical health depending on the severity of the in-laws rudeness. Not standing up for your partner is the same as joining in on the torture too...but when it comes to not standing up for himself too? Then, thats a problem. And it really shows that the male partner needs help too. So, maybe therapy together as partners? I don't know.
Considering leaving or staying with or for the child still depends on the severity of the situation. Is it life threatening? Do you have financial support maybe from yourself or your partner to take care of yourself? How well do you maintain mental sanity in this situation? If the maltreatment is endurable, then endure....your good attitude might change them. People change. But if its unbearable and life threatening....save yourself first and if you must take your child with you, then do so. These are my suggestions in such a dreadful reality... didn't know i would have had that much to say but yes. Lets be safe out there. Say no to premarital sex. Use condoms if you must and try to know your partner well First. And pray, pray that you end up with your "the one". Ciao!
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