For the @LadiesofHive - Contest this week, I will be answering to the question -
Does love come on suddenly or grow over time? What are your keys
to ensure your relationship remains strong and healthy?
In our life time there are all sorts of relationships that we come across and fall in love with. Love is not just limited to couples. There are some relationships where Love is just a very natural part of it, like the one between parents and siblings and there are some relations where it happens gradually, like when we meet our life partner or friends.
Some connections happen instantly, like how we say love at first sight. When I met my hubby for the first time, it was an instant connection and we both felt that strong attraction towards each other, the love at first sight one. But with my experience I can say that yes though it was Love at first sight it was not that strong. As we started getting to know each other, we both were exploring each other's strength and weaknesses and at times also feeling that probably we would not go a long way together. Still, there was something that was not even allowing us to fall apart and that was Love. As years went by our Love kept getting stronger and reaching to a level where we could both accept each other's flaws and weaknesses whole heartedly without complaining.
Even if it is sudden Love, it will put us through the testing times and if we can endure those times or not is the real test of Love, this is where it will prove how strong the Love is.
What I have learned to ensure that my relationship remains strong and healthy is to allow myself to surrender to my ego every time it pops up. Whenever there is a problem in the relationship, I prefer to stay quiet for sometime and reflect on the whole situation with a calm and peaceful mind and understand where things are going wrong and then try to resolve them. If it's my fault I do not shy off to say sorry or make the first move.
Maintaining a relationship to me is just not about doing special things when we fight or have problems but it is an ongoing effort. Expressing love towards each other, attending to each other's needs, hugs and kisses, randomly keep saying I Love you, holding each other's hands as often as possible, doing those little special things on a daily basis, giving surprises without any occasions, making my partner feel special, appreciating each other's efforts are just some of my ways of maintaining a strong and a healthy relationship.
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That's lovely, there are ups and downs, however, you both able to develop an unbreakable bond of love, and reach a level of unconditional acceptance and understanding. ❤️
Thanks so much for taking the time to join us and share your experience :)
Thank you. That was a delightful loving question, making one reflect on their journey in the relationship of Love
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It is great to know that you've experienced love-at-first-sight and then your relationship developed into a strong and healthy one. Congratulations :)
And I totally agree with doing the little things that matter, like the ones you mentioned, re:
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Thank you my dear @ifarmgirl. You cannot take these relations for granted and neither they are going to happen just by itself.
How i wish I am a lady so that I can write concerning the topic that has to do with love...Nice topic by the way
As suggested by @consciouscat, you can write on it from any other community. Hive has all the possible options and solutions :-)
Alright , thank you very much
You could still write a post on this topic. You simply write it in another community like Thoughtful Daily Posts or Daily Blog or GEMS. 😉
Seeking true love will surely takes time. Like I said in my blog about the same topic, it will take a lot of effort and be taking a step-by-step process.
Indeed, it is a step-by-step process and you cannot hurry in that process, it just happens with time and the effort you put in
I will definitely agree with you Maam. We just have to wait for the right time.
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A Healthy Relationship is very important in our life and this also works a support system for us in many situations.
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All the long journey of human evolution Love is still one of the semi solved mysteries that intrigues us. There is no formula to calculate it just happens. With that being said I say it is pretty incredible of you to have written this post with some meaningful insights.
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