LOH#78- WHO HAS HELPED YOU GROW?

in Ladies of Hive2 years ago (edited)

This weeks contest question 2
From the #ladiesofhive community

We have all had a person who has helped us grow. Sometimes that teacher taught us with love, other times learning was a challenge. We want you to tell us about that person who helped you in the evolution of your life, it could be a boss, a friend, an acquaintance, a coworker, etc.

In my life’s journey I have had encounter with a lot of people that has impacted me along the way one way or the other. I wasn’t really a Slow student in school at all, so I can’t really pin point a teacher in particular that helped me through any course because to be very honest, I was teachers Favourite and along the line I discovered bright students are always teachers favorite. All my teachers were amazing.

people who I can say have really contributed to my growth would be my family. From my mum to my dad to my elder sisters to brother, they have all helped shape and mold and guide me along my life’s journey.

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my Odogwu

But...

For the purpose of this article I would pick my husband man.
My husband is one person that has closely and immensely helped me grow from a small young girl to the woman I am today. It’s one of the very first things I loved about him. And am not picking him because I am in love or married to him.. I’ll let you judge for yourself, stay with me.

I remember When I just started courting him, he asked me what I was into buisness wise and I told him I had just started my event management business. He drilled me on a lot of questions about the line of business I was into because he too is in the entertainment industry and has a wide knowledge of things and that just how he is, so knowledgeable and has so much wisdom to offer everyone.

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my very first business card

We had this talk and he encouraged as well as schooled me on what was obtainable in my line of business and how I could get visibility and grow. Two days later I got a package from him, and as soon as I opened it I saw a whole bunch of complimentary cards with my business name on it. My husband, then a boyfriend made me my first complimentary card for my business. I was in awe of how far he was willing to go to push me to be the best.

He has been my push in the past six years. When I feel lazy in any area of my life, he is the first to give me the pep talk I need to fuel my energy to do better at what ever I need to do. Over time I have found out that I rely alot on him unconsciously for morale and support.

This man has helped me grow spiritually as a Christian, I take one look at the amount of faith he exercises spiritually and I am left wanting to have that type of faith and courage.

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More than half of the contracts I get are from how much he talks about me and my business to anyone and everyone. It’s the way he carries my buisness as his own. My personal PR personnel. One publicity from him and I get the best sales and job offers that whole month.

I am really grateful for the person of him in my life. He shuffles not only as my husband but as a teacher, even when I have the hardest head and wouldn’t listen sometimes, he is always willing to teach me. He shuffles as my driver, especially on days I have deliveries for suprise breakfast or birthday orders, he would drive me around till I am done with my deliveries, he is also my cheerleader, on days when I feel low in any aspect of my life, he reminds me of how amazing a woman I am and how I am doing so well for myself.

When I started as a writer on hive, he would always remind me of contents I can write about, when we go out he would see something and say to me ‘see content for your blog won’t you take a picture of it’.

Sometimes I really ask myself what I did to get such supportive man.

I can’t talk about my growth process in life without mentioning my man’s name. He always wants to see me do better and be the best at what ever I do. He isn’t perfect in any way, half the time I would like to take a cane and flog him (Lol), I guess every married woman feels this way sometimes. But he is everything And more I prayed for. A solid rock behind me any day Any time.

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Wowwww, from your story it's no doubt your hubby has helped you grow in so many areas of your life.

So supportive , that's great!

Some women don't get their dream fulfilled atimes because they lack support from their husband , glad to know yours supports your dream and pushes you to grow.

Lucky you!

Thank you so much

Awwww, GOD BLESS HIM for his constant support and push....

Amen
Thanks boo

Look at this fresh young couple... My goodness!!! I hope you don't mind me hyping but I love seeing young good looking married people. As in, y'all are fiiiiiiineeeee...

There's nothing as amazing as a supportive partner. I'm happy you have this in your husband man.

Plix, remember that vacation I told you to go on? Hurry up and go. You guys are too beautiful to not flex life to the fullest.

I don’t mind at all
Lol

Ahhh it’s on my to do list
I must go before kids come and hold us down
As it is We don’t have much time left
Lol

Thanks for stopping by

You are so blessed. Teacher, mentor, husband, and Encourager.

Thanks for sharing @reineesmay

I appreciate you
Thank you for stopping by

How lucky you are! Your husband is your ideal helper. He is there not only to be your husband, he encourages you, challenges you to do your best, collaborates with you and gives you ideas to improve not only your business but your life.

He sure is a keeper

Thank you so much
I appreciate you

Incredible story, it is the dream of all of us to have our better half and you have it. Congratulations.

And you are right, sometimes I also want to hit my husband with a cane. 🤣🤣🤣

Lol
I knew I wasn’t the only one who felt like flogging mine

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I appreciate you

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I will love o😂😂😂😂😂😂...
Chai see support system na.. You are blessed dear..

I sure am

Thank you 😊

Thank you for tagging me

God bless your husband for been so supportive

You people are enjoying in this marriage thing o. 😭
It’s amazing having your own person who’s always in your corner and ready to lift and support you.

Lucky you babe. Good luck with the contest. ❤️

The reports of bad marriage or bad husbands are too much

We need more positive reviews
Marriage is actually sweet and enjoyable when you marry the right person By Gods grace