Hello my dear friends of this beautiful community It really is a topic that I thought about a lot before writing it, since this topic still affects me a bit, in fact, everything that I have had to live because of my overweight has not been easy to internalize, I comment a little. Since I was a little girl I have been chubby, I remember that at that time my neighbors and classmates always made me feel that I was not part of the group that generated in me that I sought to isolate myself I felt that that way no one would hurt me, of course being the target Teasing at such a young age affects you more than usual. Finally, I dared to share with you my experience, I hope that women who, like me, have suffered from bullying in a brutal way, my personal experience can help them a little, and mothers who have small children please ask them to speak with them and explain to them not to do things like this to their chubby classmates, since their actions will make those little friends feel very sad, and to those who are chubby like me I tell them that they are not suffering, let them tell it, that they do not feel afraid. I conclude wishing that my story of overcoming will help many of them so that they do not suffer like me and that we continue forward despite everything.
Today I want to tell you a little about what the weight loss process has been for me.
They always yelled things at me that I think they shouldn't tell anyone, things like Why are you living? Why don't you take your fat somewhere else? They called me ugly, fat among so many things, indeed, all these things generated in me that I felt harassed and led me to enter a vicious circle, where food was my only friend, it calmed my anxiety, but, What I did was make my situation even worse, I felt panic about going to both school and the park, they were the places where I received the most ridicule for my physical appearance, I still remember my parents telling me not to pay attention to just turn around and I won't face it, obviously when you're kids and you get such ugly insults you never really understand why this happens.
Today I am 36 years old, and everything that I have had to live has helped me to be stronger and that everything they say about me no longer matters to me that experience lived when I was a child made me stronger, I began to eat healthy since 4 years ago, it is a slow, strong process but there I go hand in hand with God and I know that without a doubt I will reach my goal, today I feel happier and I see that many people love and value me.
All this affected my childhood, my adolescence, and do not believe until my adulthood has it affected me; I constantly suffer from low self-esteem, this makes me a very insecure woman, and even this has sometimes generated attracting certain "friends" and relationships that have taken advantage of it.
Thank you all for reading me
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