Ladies of Hive Community Contest #263: Inculcating Essential Values and Lessons in Our Children.

[van.illa]

Growing up and understanding life, I have come to realize that there are some essential lessons that needs to be taught to children that shapes them and make them better people in our society.
I was taught back in school that the family is the smallest unit of the society, that's why it's important to raise good kid from home, home is where upbringing begins, you give them the best training at home so they don't become a threat to the society.
Any value an adult possesses today, started from home, because we start learning from home, kids learn respect from home, kids learn kindness and love at home, they learn positive and negative things from home. Home is always where learning begins.

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These are values and most important lessons that we are responsible to teach our kids :

Kindness, Love and Compassion:

Teaching kids to be kind and compassionate doesn't make them weak, it's only teaches them to treat others with care ,love and kindness, if we have more kind people in our world today, there would definitely be less crimes.
Kindness is an important value that teaches kids to love people around them, including strangers, share to people and not be greed, it makes them grow in so much love and spread love everywhere they go to.

Honesty and Respect :

I don't trust people who aren't honest, and I believe many of us don't, it's important to teach children to be honest, because honestly makes people trust you, believe your words and keeps good people around you.
Teach them that truthfulness and Honesty are important values, that makes them better people, respected citizens and brings the right persons around them.
Also to be respectful, to their elders and their equals, respect is a good value to inculcate.

Being Responsible and Hardworking:

Teach kids to be responsible, act responsible, live a responsible life and the important of having a responsible job.
It's our job the make them understand the value of being responsible, and that by being a responsible adult, they watch and learn from too.
Because kids learn from watching us too
It's also our job to make them learn that success don't come by resting all day, hardwork is the key to success in life, hardwork is the key to good grades in school, successful career and good business.
And also make them understand that failure is part of learning, they shouldn't give up because of their failed experience, failure is part of learning and it's meant to make them stronger.

Practicing Self Discipline and Forgiveness:

Children should understand that they would be offended by friends and family, regardless of the debth of the offense, they should learn to forgive and let go.
Also, practicing self discipline, even when they are pushed to react a certain way, they should hold back those feelings.

Communication and Teamwork:

It's important to teach children how to communicate to others, also communicate their feelings, communicate when there's a misunderstanding and also learn to work as a team, maintain healthy competition and learn from others.

This is my response to this week prompt,

What do you consider to be the most important lessons that we should teach our children?

Thanks for reading ♥️

Vanilla 💗

Comments

[graceze]

Growth actually opens our eyes to alot, these values will really help if they are taught from the root with simplicity and love. Thanks for sharing 👍

[van.illa]

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[tigrace]

Wow beautiful point you got my dear. Thanks for sharing.

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[henrietta27]

Home is definitely the first school for a child... Well done

[van.illa]

Like the popular saying;

Charity begins at home.

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[cautiva-30]

All those values ​​you describe—kindness, honesty, respect, responsibility—are what will make your children great people for society. Have a nice afternoon,
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[cochanet]

Bastantes valores que reforzar en un niño, los cuales deben ir de la mano con el modelo a seguir, aunque por experiencia propia siento que ya los niños responden de diferentes maneras a las enseñanzas, porque soy madre de 4 varones, y no todos son iguales, aún así hay que insistir en que adapten a su diario vivir la amabilidad, la compasión tan necesaria en estos días, que sepan que todos somos diferentes, ya que somos como los dedos de la mano, aunque todos pertenecen a la misma mano, cada uno es diferente al otro y hay que saber respetar las diferencias. Fue un gusto leerte. Bendiciones y suerte en el concurso 🙏🏼

There are many values ​​to reinforce in a child, which should go hand in hand with the role model they serve. Although, from my own experience, I feel that children respond to teachings in different ways, because I'm the mother of four boys, and they're not all the same, we must still insist that they incorporate kindness and compassion—so necessary these days—into their daily lives. They need to know that we are all different, like the fingers on a hand; although they all belong to the same hand, each one is different from the other, and we must learn to respect those differences. It was a pleasure reading your post. Blessings and good luck in the contest 🙏🏼

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[kerrislravenhill]

I can't argue with all the attributes we like to see in our children.
The best way to teach them is for them to see us parents practice these in real time in front of them as their role model.

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[van.illa]

Parents have to be good role models.
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[trucklife-family]

Home life, is so important in helping to teach kids some core values in life. It really does begin at home.
Thank you for sharing the lessons that are most important to you, for teaching our children, they are very important indeed.

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[bipolar95]

These are all beautiful qualities that if imbibed in every child the world would indeed be a better place. I'd like to include contentment and confidence as the cherry on the icing if you don't mind 😊