I have heard countless advice from strong women , from home to different platforms and seminars , but there are some advise that live rent free in my head, they are unforgettable , not just because of the messengers of these words, but the unforgettable impact these words have on you.
During my undergraduate study ,I met an amazing young lady , who was a graduate trainee in the university then and one of the days I visited her office with so much worries, it was the third time my supervisor was correcting my project , he cancelled alot and gave me so much extra work, and I got tired and angry , she was trying to calm me down and we got into other conversations, she started talking about becoming a high valued woman and many other things, then she told me at the end;
"The responsibility to build the life you want is dependent on you, work like no one is coming to save you, and think positive always"
This words are unforgettable, realizing I'm the only one to save myself in my current situation and worries really helped me stood firm , I had to think positive and productive, I stood up and did better, I never forgot those words and this words changed my mindset till date, encourage me to do more and I tell every young lady around me. To be high valued and to earn respect you have to be responsible enough, and offer so much value to the people around you and the world.
Regardless of the fact that we might have supportive parents, love ones and friends, it's important to know that you are your responsible, everyother help will not be permanent in your life and you cannot feel entitled to peoples help, but then you can feel entitled of your own , help, funds, properties and belongings, so it's better to create yours, they are permanent and an assurance of a stable future for you and people you love.
These words taught me to look for solutions, and not blame others for my mistakes, so we ought to work, invest and be productive enough, , because no one is coming to save us.
And lastly, there's power in staying positive, even when the problem you are facing is scary and threatening.
Staying positive is key.
The strong female character who inspire me always is Nancy Isime, she's not just a movie star or a hostess but also a beautiful lady with a clean reputation, hardworking mindset, possesses so much confidence,so much positivity and passion, which is a obvious in her lifestyle , watching her shows have impacted me so much, Nancy Isime is that female character that inspires me to do better, work hard, believe in myself, stay positive and love myself.
Thanks for reading ♥️
Staying positive is a great escape from negativities and uncertainties, but it's one of the hardest thing we find ourselves to do. Once you are able to stay positive, you better your life and even inspire others too.
That's a very beautiful advice from the lady. Thanks for sharing it with us.
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Yes oo… no one is coming to save us and we must stand up to our responsibility. That’s how we earn respect and are valued highly.
Yes oo… no one is coming to save us and we must stand up to our responsibility. That’s how we earn respect and are valued highly.